Selfish, difficult to raise... was not! The instruction manual of the shining temperament "exceptionally delicate child (HSC)" that one in five people has

I hate the tingling of clothes.

"Notice a slight change in the taste of miso soup"

"I always put myself off when I see my friend's face."

When you see your child like that, you may feel worried and confused in the group life, wondering why he is so nervous? or Did I become timid because of my way of raising him?

However, it is not selfish or because of the way it was raised. Perhaps the child may have a special temperament called [HSC (child with exceptionally sensitive sensitivity)], which is said to be born with about one in five people.

This time, we will introduce the four representative features of HSC "DOES" and the wonderful advantages hidden behind them.

🧠 Four features of HSC "DOES" and its true face

HSC children are born with four delicate antennas.

【 D 】 Think deeply (Deep processing)

They sense more than people do, and their processing of information is deep and detailed, so it takes time to make decisions or they can't take action.

✨ But it's... It's a great advantage to be thoughtful and have great insight.

[O] Receive excessive stimulation (Overstimulation)

It reacts more sensitively than people to various stimuli in life, such as sound, light, heat, and the touch of clothes. From infancy, it may lead to troubles such as "sleeping is bad," "waking up with a slight noise," and "back switch is sensitive."

✨ but it is a proof of the charm of being moved by even the smallest things and having a rich sensibility.

[E] High empathy (emotional response and empathy)

In order to sense people's feelings sensitively, tears are fragile or deeply sympathize with someone's sadness. That's why in group life, it is easy to feel "tough" more than others.

✨ But it is... "Sensitive and compassionate to be close to people from the heart."

[S] Detect even small stimuli (Subtle stimuli)

They are sensitive to small differences, such as faint sounds or changes in the taste of miso soup made by their mother. Parents may miss stress because they are good at being patient with their surroundings.

✨ But it's a talent of being able to grasp the situation without missing small changes, being good at caring for people, and having excellent intuition.

👋 to parents: Love the sensibility as it is, sometimes borrowing the eyes of a professional

HSC is not a disease or disability, but a precious "temperament" that the child was born with.

By being aware of trivial things and being deeply vulnerable, parents can accept their rich sensibilities by saying, "It's okay to be you," so that children can walk firmly on their own feet You can get a sense of security.

However, there are times when you pay too much attention to your surroundings and accumulate stress, or you can't help but feel reluctant and tired in a group life.

In such a case, please do not hesitate to ask "How should I respond?" only by parents, please feel free to consult with school counselors, professional medical institutions, specialists in child psychology.

Parents can also unload their shoulders by giving specific advice to their children from a professional perspective and getting tips on creating an environment. Let's snuggle up together one step at a time while supporting others so that your child can grow up freely by changing its delicacy into a "wonderful strength"!

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