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what is your why?

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Defining your 'why' is essential for personal development. It serves as a foundation that guides your decisions, shapes your goals, and provides you with a deeper sense of purpose. Engage in self-reflection to explore your motivations and experiences, which can offer insights into what drives you. Tools like journaling, meditation, or discussions with trusted friends can facilitate this discovery process. Additionally, understanding your 'why' allows you to connect authentically with others who share similar values and aspirations, fostering a supportive community. Consider real-life examples of individuals who've successfully identified and followed their 'why,' as their journeys can serve as inspiration in your quest for purpose. Remember, your 'why' can evolve over time, so continuous evaluation and adjustment are necessary to stay aligned with what truly matters to you.

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This is tough, I saw a quote years ago that said something like, “I want to spend the rest of my life helping other ppl feel less broken .” & I feel like that’s been my mantra since. Hence, why I got my degree in Psych, have always worked in the mental health field & am looking to pivot a bit to become a psych nurse.

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