bout to raise the standards 🫶🏽

if you’re new here, hi, my name is lamisaa :) i stayed in toxic relationships that destroyed me for far too long, and healing completely changed the way i view love and relationships.

i believe relationships should be built on mutual respect, effort, accountability, and two people genuinely showing up for each other. but before you can build that kind of relationship with someone else, you have to build a healthy relationship with yourself.

because once you learn to choose yourself, respect yourself, and stop abandoning yourself for other people, your standards change too. you stop accepting what hurts you just because you’re afraid to lose someone.

we don’t do that here anymore. 🫶🏽