You are not too far from your own hear

I wish someone told me,

When I was holding parts of my heart gnashing itself to be loved by anything else,

You are not too far from your own heart as you feel.

You are merely responding to the fear the mind harbors when we begin to believe our own heart isn't enough to save us.

I hope today you do something where you choose something you enjoy first.

#bpdrecovery #bpd #mentalhealthawareness #poetry

2025/12/16 Edited to

... Read moreFeeling disconnected from your own heart can be a common experience, especially when dealing with emotional struggles or mental health challenges such as borderline personality disorder (BPD). The fear and doubts that arise in these moments are natural responses from the mind, often creating a sense that your heart alone is insufficient to heal or protect you. However, embracing the truth that you are not far from your own heart can be a powerful step toward emotional recovery and resilience. Choosing to engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment is more than just a distraction—it’s a vital form of self-care. Whether it’s indulging in a favorite hobby, spending time with loved ones, or simply taking quiet moments for reflection, these actions help nurture your spirit and reaffirm your sense of worth. This approach aligns with mental health awareness principles, emphasizing the importance of valuing oneself and recognizing the inner strength we all hold. Creative outlets like poetry can also serve as meaningful tools for self-expression and healing. Writing or reading poetry allows individuals to process complex emotions and experiences with authenticity and vulnerability. Sharing these moments, such as in supportive communities focused on bpdrecovery or mentalhealthawareness, creates connections that remind us we are not alone in our struggles. Ultimately, the journey to healing involves acknowledging your fears without letting them dictate your sense of self. By understanding that the heart's perceived distance is often a shadow cast by the mind’s anxieties, you open the door to compassion and self-acceptance. This mindset fosters hope and encourages continuing forward with kindness toward yourself.

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