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What I hate about the newborn stage

The newborn stage is absolutely the hardest part of having kids in my opinion.

My oldest is only five years old, so I have a lot of parenting stages left to go and a lot of learning and maturing left to go as a mother, but so far I’ve had quite the opposite experience of so many other mothers have had.

I know sooo many moms who LOVE the newborn stage, but quite frankly… I don’t.

The raging hormones, sleepless nights, and crying baby whom I can’t communicate with … it’s rough.

I’d much rather the toddler stage!

Toddlers can tell you what they want, they don’t keep you up all night (not a co-sleeping mom here) and in general I think they are just more fun.

But even with all that said… I do love my newborns! They are so soft, cuddly, and squishy! And there’s something special about finally holding your baby after 9 months of growing them.

And this stage is the shortest stage, so although I’m always a little relieved when it’s over, I’ve learned over the years to appreciate this short amount of time that I get with my baby.

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Navigating the newborn stage can be incredibly challenging for many new parents. Sleep deprivation is one of the most difficult aspects, as babies often wake multiple times during the night, leading to exhaustion and stress for caregivers. Many mothers report feeling overwhelmed by the constant needs of their newborn, coupled with the frustration of not being able to communicate directly with their infant, which can lead to feelings of helplessness. Moreover, the sudden shift in lifestyle and the emotional rollercoaster resulting from hormonal changes can leave new moms feeling isolated and unprepared. It's essential to acknowledge that while many parents cherish these fleeting moments, those same moments can feel relentless for others. Support networks, whether they be family, friends, or online communities, can play a crucial role in helping new moms share their feelings and seek advice. Discussing experiences openly can lead to a better understanding of varied perspectives on the newborn stage, encouraging empathy and support for one another in this new chapter of life. Embracing vulnerability allows moms to connect and share the realities of motherhood while celebrating the joys that also come with raising a newborn.

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Hang in there mama! You got this 🥰

Newborn mom here…currently going through it! I’d have to agree it’s a lot when you have to guess what’s wrong. Especially when they’ve ate, burped, been changed and should be fine. I keep telling myself this doesn’t last forever so just enjoy every moment of it…even if it’s off of 2 hours of sleep😭

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