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Feeling like i’m behind in life 🥺

I’m 26 and I constantly feel like I’m behind in life. I got into my career job at 21, graduated college at 22, bought a house at 24, got married at 25, and we got a puppy more so recently. But I can’t help and still think I’m behind in life. I feel like we should be trying for a baby, traveling, doing more. I feel like lots of people my age have seen so much of the world. Sometimes I feel like I haven’t fully reached my potential or haven’t truly found who I am. Is it because I was so busy planning for my future? Is it meant to be for me to be settling a bit at the moment? What should I be doing with this extra time in my hands now?

#GirlTalk #lemon8challenge #feelingbehind #embracevulnerability #unfiltered

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Many young adults, particularly those in their twenties, often grapple with the notion of being 'behind' in life compared to their peers. This feeling can stem from various factors, such as societal pressures, social media comparisons, or personal expectations. It’s crucial to understand that everyone’s journey is unique; what works for one person may not resonate with another. If you find yourself feeling left out while friends travel or start families, know that it’s okay to take your time. Embracing vulnerability by discussing these feelings with friends or seeking guidance from a therapist can provide relief. Also, consider focusing on your personal growth: engage in hobbies, pursue new skills, or volunteer to help others. This can help refocus your energy from comparisons to self-discovery. Remember that milestones are individual; traveling, settling down, or career achievements come at different paces for each of us. Celebrate your accomplishments—like home ownership or marriage—while allowing space for your feelings of incompleteness. Use this time of uncertainty to explore your interests and passions, ensuring that each step you take is authentic and true to yourself.

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I’m 30, don’t own a home, am not married and am currently unemployed so I PROMISE you are not behind. I have lived a lot of different places but I promise everyone’s journey is different.

25, dead end job, live at home still bc housing hates single income, no relationship since I was 20, attempted going back to school and did awful…. You are so much further ahead than most.

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