Is Anything Real Anymore?!

Social media can come with so much pressure. I’ve tried many times to find my place in this world and I’ve never been keen on the “niches” or working hard to create content “for” other people. I don’t want to contribute to over consumption by pushing products to pay my bills. I want to create something so real, so relatable. To say the things the people I relate to and take inspiration from can feel in their soul. I want to resonate with people, not sell them.

I miss writing. It’s the least complicated way to express myself. It comes naturally to me. An escape.

So, here I am. A newbie on Lemon8, hoping it’s different. Hoping it’s a place where pretty words and relating to each other on a deeper level is in and selling and perfectly curated feel good content is out.

Welcome, friends <3

#notinfluencing #beingrealistic #unfiltered #unfilteredmotherhood #realmotherhood

2024/12/14 Edited to

... Read moreIn an era where social media often presents a curated façade of life, the quest for authenticity has become increasingly vital. Many content creators, like the author, feel overwhelmed by the pressure to conform to popular trends and niches. This pressure not only stifles creativity but also leads to a sense of disconnection from one’s true self and audience. Instead of focusing on selling products or fitting into predefined categories, there is a growing movement towards creating content that is unfiltered and relatable. Authentically expressing thoughts and feelings can foster deeper connections with others who share similar experiences. The rise of discussions around #unfiltered and #realmotherhood encourages creators to be open about their struggles and triumphs, paving the way for a more supportive community. Writing serves as a powerful tool for self-expression, offering solace amidst the chaos. By sharing genuine stories, creators not only find their voice but also empower their audience to embrace their own truths. The importance of mental health and self-care practices is increasingly acknowledged, as creators prioritize authenticity over superficial engagements. This shift encourages a more profound understanding of one another and promotes conversations that matter. As the community rallies around realness, it becomes a space for healing and connection where every voice matters.

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