Why am I not at Coachella?!

Why do I not have influencer friends? Why do brands not call me?! HELLO 👋🏼 it’s me. Your favorite non influencer wannabe who forgets to post and than discovers the reason why she’s not an influencer..eheh 🫠

For real though. How do I get there so I can dance with @mrs__webber while jamming to Devo?! #coachella #influncer #viral #letsbefriends #fyp

4/11 Edited to

... Read moreAttending Coachella has become a dream for many aspiring influencers, including myself. From personal experience, I’ve learned that becoming an influencer isn’t just about showing up or having fun—it requires consistent effort, genuine connections, and strategic content creation. One key insight is the importance of regular posting; brands look for creators who engage their audience steadily, not sporadically. I’ve often forgotten to post, which likely explains why brand offers have been scarce. Networking also plays a crucial role. Influencers often collaborate or appear at events because they’ve built relationships within the community and with brands. Following this, I’m actively trying to connect with like-minded creators, hoping that shared interests like music and festivals like Coachella can open doors. Dancing alongside someone like @mrs__webber while enjoying live sets by artists like Devo would be incredible, but it takes more than just fan enthusiasm—it’s about presenting a consistent, authentic presence. For anyone wondering how to break into influencer circles or attend such iconic events, my advice is to start by sharing your authentic self, engage consistently with your audience, and network genuinely rather than focusing just on the glamor. Building these habits has helped me understand the influencer world better, and while I’m still on the journey, each step brings me closer to the experience I dream of.

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