Social media will have you thinking every holiday needs to be ✈️ huge ✨ aesthetic 📸 unforgettable.
But guess what? Slow days count too.
You don’t have to road trip, picnic, party, or post just to prove you’re “doing something.”
I spent the weekend sipping Old Faithful root beer, chasing the tiniest mall in Montana, and living my best low-key tourist life — and honestly? 10/10 no notes 💖
There’s no shame in using long weekends to reset, rest, or stay in your comfiest clothes.
Whether you’re out dancing under fireworks or deep in a root beer float like me…
YOU’RE DOING IT RIGHT.
✨ Let’s normalize chill holidays
✨ Let’s stop letting social media set the bar
✨ Let’s enjoy the freedom we’ve got — even if that looks like a nap and Netflix 💅🏻
Sound off: Do you feel pressure to “do something big” every holiday? 👇🏻
... Read moreIn today's fast-paced world, the pressure to create picture-perfect holiday moments can be overwhelming. Social media platforms often promote extravagant celebrations and experiences that can make us feel inadequate if we choose a simpler route. However, it's crucial to recognize the value of taking time off to recharge, relax, and savor the quiet moments that life offers.
Chill holidays are about nurturing your mental health and wellness. Whether it's enjoying a cozy day in your favorite pajamas, relishing a root beer float as mentioned, or indulging in a Netflix binge, these experiences add richness to our lives. They cultivate a sense of peace that can often get lost in the hustle and bustle of life.
Many people find fulfillment in smaller, intimate moments, such as just spending time with family, reading a good book, or engaging in self-care activities. These choices reinforce the idea that we don’t need to align our lives with the curated highlights shared online. Instead, we should celebrate our personal choices, which enable us to find joy and meaning in simplicity.
By normalizing chill holidays, we contribute to a healthier dialogue around relaxation. It’s more than just resting – it’s about intentionality and understanding that our worth isn’t measured by how “active” we are during our time off. Ultimately, every form of relaxation counts. So next time you feel the urge to do something big, remember that it's perfectly okay to savor stillness and tranquility.
It's essential that we create space for discussions around the pressures of holiday expectations. Let’s support each other in redefining what a meaningful holiday looks like, embracing both the exciting adventures and the serene pauses in life.
This is so real. I used to feel guilty for not packing holidays with big plans, but now I love slow weekends at home. Comfy clothes, good snacks, and zero pressure = actual joy.
Some of my favorite Christmases have been spent alone