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🍋🥰Put your own prejudices and attachment down...👇

In our lives...

No need to quarrel...

To make the story clear in every story.

Because the clear water is too clean...No fish

The person wearing it is too clean...Without friends

Arguing with family

Even if you win the bond...It's gone.

Arguing with a lover

Even if winning love...Faded away

Arguing with friends

Even to win friendship...Was lost.

Arguing for a reason

Damage is a relationship.

The pain is self.

Black is black.

White is white.

Put their own prejudices and attachment to waste.

Your heart will widen immediately.

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