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7 ways to withdraw from an unclear relationship

1. When you cry, you cry until the body can't tell, and then you can stop. Crying is the best restraint.

2. Think of the disadvantages and actions that he has hurt us without forgetting.

3. Do not try to contact, keep your phone far away or pretend to forget.

4. Do not say to forget, but gradually choose to step back from him, such as usually answering a message quickly, except for one hour to answer.

5. Find a cafe nearby, sit down, let go of the mood, let go of the mind, sit down and work for a while.

6. Find English music, rock genre, listen to rocking music, and smile at yourself in the mirror.

7. Watch funny clips, dogs, cats for hilarious and healing.

# Bad relationship # An unclear relationship # Relationship undisclosed # Stop dating # Lemon 8 Howtoo

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