3 Stories to be cleared before ‼️ Lessons from married and children in 30 +

They were boyfriends for 10 years and married and lived together, and now they have one little daughter, saying, "A different story!" 😂

...When you're a girlfriend, it's all good, but when you get married, the picture immediately comes to reality.

If not, clear these 3 matters to the end before the wedding. This work is definitely a broken house. 😭

...From Ming's direct experience.

I recommend clearing these three immediately. ‼️

1. "Money" and "space" after marriage

Aside from love, money is a big deal!!

You have to think, once you're separated, how do you manage the expenses?

Who pays the central fee, the water, the electricity, the eating fee?

So what kind of space does each person want?

Our home is really separated from each other, but have to talk to clear from the first day!!

Otherwise, the difference in lifestyle will be a daily quarrel!!

2. "Children" and "division of duties"

If thinking of having children together, have to talk first!!

How to raise each age?

So who will do what?

Do not leave the task of raising a child to one to become a "woman carrying." It must be agreed on where the husband will help...Otherwise, the new mother will definitely be tired until the body is broken!!

3. "Family of each party"

Ming is very lucky that the mother-in-law is cute. Very kind.

When you have a child, your mother-in-law is the best Support System. 💕

Each house has different restrictions!!

So this needs to be discussed in advance.

If we're tired or in trouble one day, who can support us?

How compatible are our family and our husband?

...It is a very important story!!

They were boyfriends for 10 years and married and lived together, and now they have one little daughter, saying, "A different story!" 😂

* * The last 10 years of marriage have made me realize

...That only love is not really enough

But "facing each other and understanding each other's weaknesses" is what survives to this day. 🥰

📌 Which house before marriage has ever been cleared of anything? Or who is facing any problems? Stop by to comment, review, or discuss under this post. 👇✨

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