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Why do unexpected reasons like to happen when not careful?

Have you ever noticed that when we carry a platoon in our pocket, it doesn't rain back, but when we forget to take it, it pours down immediately, or when we focus on driving well, nothing happens. But when we accidentally turn to pick up the item for a second, the front car suddenly brakes back.

In science, psychology and philosophy, many theories are described, divided into the following:

# # # 1.Murphy's Law

If sarcastic or fateful, the loudest theory is * * Murphy's Law * * with the classic sentence * "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong" (anything that can go wrong, it will definitely go wrong) *

This rule says that if there is a small chance that something bad will happen, and it will happen when we are not ready or not careful, we will feel, "Why are you born now?" In fact, it is a matter of probability that one day will happen.

# # # 2.Recognition bias (Confirmation Bias)

Psychologically, this behavior is described by "memory bias."

* * * When we are not careful about the incident: * * Our brain is shocked and violent emotions (e.g. angry, hurt, frustrated) cause the brain to record this event accurately.

* * * When we are not careful but "survive": * * Which is actually very frequent, such as walking poop but not stumbling, driving accidentally, but there is no car that day, but because nothing happens, the brain erases the information and does not remember.

When we counted only the "missed" episodes, we felt that bad things always come when we accidentally * when they actually come according to their normal statistics.

# # # 3.Blind because of not focusing (Inattentional Blindness)

Sometimes it doesn't "choose" when we're not careful, but it happens normally, just * * because we're not careful, so we can't see the warning before we realize it's a collision with us.

For example, if we drive hard, we will see the braking light of the front car early and slow down, but if we are distraught, we will not see the warning light until the car almost hits, so we just feel like "suddenly the front car brakes" (when he has been braking for a while).

# # # 4.Swiss Cheese Model Theory

This theory is often used in safety and risk management, comparing mistakes like holes on a Swiss cheese plate. Usually in life, we have multiple layers of "shields" (like multiple sheets of cheese stacked).

* Sheet 1: Safe environment

* Sheet 2: Ready Equipment

* Sheet 3: Ourselves Be Careful

Any day when the environment is bad, the device is broken, but if * * "we are still careful" * *, this last armor will block the evil, but whenever we * * "accidentally or uncarefully" * *, all the holes of the cheese will match, causing an accident or unexpected incident to break through.

> * * The simple conclusion is: * * The evil does not choose the time of birth, but the day when we are "careful," we can handle it or avoid it so that we do not feel it is a problem, but instead the word "almost" *. And the day when we are "not careful," we will lose the opportunity to prevent it, so we have to take the full impact of the incident.

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... Read moreในชีวิตประจำวัน ผมมักสังเกตว่าบางครั้งเหตุการณ์ไม่ดีชอบมาแบบไม่ทันตั้งตัว โดยเฉพาะในวันที่ผมรู้สึกผ่อนคลายหรือไม่ใส่ใจเรื่องเล็กๆ น้อยๆ เหตุการณ์เหล่านี้ทำให้ผมเริ่มใส่ใจในเรื่องสติและความพร้อมมากขึ้น จากประสบการณ์จริง การเข้าใจทฤษฎีต่างๆ อย่างกฎของเมอร์ฟีที่บอกว่า "อะไรก็ตามที่อาจผิดพลาดได้ มันก็จะผิดพลาดแน่นอน" นั้นช่วยให้ผมมีมุมมองว่าความผิดพลาดเป็นสิ่งที่หลีกเลี่ยงไม่ได้ แต่สิ่งที่เราควบคุมได้คือการเตรียมตัวให้พร้อมและมีสติอยู่เสมอ ในวันหนึ่งขณะที่ผมขับรถและกลางทางเกิดเหตุรถเบรกกะทันหัน ตอนนั้นผมใจลอยและไม่ได้สังเกตสัญญาณเตือนล่วงหน้า การรู้จักกับ "ตาบอดเพราะไม่จดจ่อ" (Inattentional Blindness) ช่วยให้ผมตระหนักถึงความสำคัญของการมีสมาธิ ไม่ว่าจะขับรถหรือทำกิจกรรมอื่นๆ เพื่อรับมือกับเหตุฉุกเฉินอย่างมีประสิทธิภาพ นอกจากนี้ "ทฤษฎีชีสสวิส" ที่พูดถึงเกราะป้องกันหลายชั้นในชีวิตก็ทำให้ผมเข้าใจว่า แม้เราจะไม่มีทางป้องกันได้ทุกเหตุการณ์ แต่ถ้าเรามีความระมัดระวังทั้งในสภาพแวดล้อมและตัวเอง ผลกระทบของเหตุการณ์เหล่านั้นก็จะลดลงไปมาก การฝึกตนเองให้มีสติผ่านการทำสมาธิหรือเทคนิคการโฟกัสจึงเป็นสิ่งที่ช่วยให้ผมไม่ตกเป็นเหยื่อของเหตุไม่คาดคิดได้ง่าย นอกจากนี้ การเรียนรู้จากทุกเหตุการณ์ที่เกิดขึ้นช่วยให้เราสามารถปรับปรุงวิธีการรับมือและป้องกันเหตุการณ์ไม่พึงประสงค์ในอนาคต สุดท้าย ผมเชื่อว่าเหตุไม่คาดคิดไม่ได้เลือกเวลาจะเกิด แต่เราสามารถเลือกที่จะเตรียมตัวให้พร้อมเสมอ เพื่อทำให้ผลกระทบนั้นน้อยที่สุดและนำพาชีวิตไปสู่ความปลอดภัยและความสุขมากขึ้น

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