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What to do? Husband addicted to society, addicted to friends until forgetting family🥹

I feel upset. My husband is like a friend, socially addicted, going out to meet this person all the time. When the family doesn't have much to go home late at night, I'm tired of not wanting to talk to each other. Sometimes we ask ourselves if our family is not important. We are at home to raise children, take care of everything, but he is like forgetting that there is a house waiting. One heart wants to understand that everyone wants to have friends, but the other heart is really hurt and lonely. What should we do? Should we let go or turn to talk to clear?

Would like friends who have experienced this kind of thing to share how to manage not to hurt themselves and keep their family 🥺

# Peak story # Love experience ♪ This story must be told # Ask

2025/9/22 Edited to

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