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How to find yourself, try this.

For those who are about to graduate or graduate but still feel lost... 🧭

The most popular problem that many people encounter is "don't know what they like," so they don't set a goal for life. 😫 Some people try to find Passion as everyone says, but they can't find it.

Today I have another goal-setting idea called * * "Top-down" * *, or looking from the last point down. ✨

Instead of starting to ask, "What are we good at now?" or "What have we graduated?" (which I call Bottom-up), let us instead look at the future for the next five years..."What kind of life do we want?" 🖼️

You can start setting goals from 4 to 5 angles:

💰 * * Income: * * How much do you want to earn? Active or Passive Incom?

⏳ * * Lifestyle Side: * * How many hours a day do you want to work? How many days a week?

💪 * * Health: * * How much fat do you want to have? Or how much Body Age?

The advantage of this kind of goal is that it will help * * "break down our old frame of mind." * * We will not only stick to the work we have learned, but we will start looking for skills or tools that can lead us to that kind of life.

Remember that...Maybe it's not about finding the job you want to do, it's about finding the life you want and building it. 🎯

Who can use this method to flag their lives and work, or want to share their goals for the next five years? Comments can tell! 👇

# lemon 8 invites # Develop yourself # Life goals # Find yourself # Regular work

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... Read moreหลายครั้งที่การค้นหาตัวเองไม่เจอ มักเกิดจากการที่เรายึดติดกับสิ่งที่มีอยู่ตอนนี้ หรือสิ่งที่คิดว่าเราควรทำตามที่เรียนมา ซึ่งเป็นกรอบความคิดแบบ Bottom-up ที่อาจทำให้เรารู้สึกตันและสับสนได้ เมื่อเปลี่ยนมาใช้แนวคิด Top-down คือการเริ่มตั้งเป้าหมายชีวิตจากภาพรวมในอนาคต เช่น ต้องการชีวิตแบบไหนใน 5 ปีข้างหน้า จะมีรายได้แบบใด ทำงานอย่างไร และรักษาสุขภาพแบบไหน ซึ่งช่วยเปิดมุมมองใหม่และลดความกังวลเรื่องความชอบที่หายาก จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว การตั้งเป้าหมายแบบนี้ช่วยให้ผมชัดเจนกับสิ่งที่อยากได้จริง ๆ โดยไม่ต้องมาวิตกเรื่องหาว่าชอบอะไรหรือไม่ชอบอะไร ณ ปัจจุบัน แต่จะมองหาทักษะและโอกาสที่จะนำพาไปสู่ชีวิตในฝัน เช่น การเลือกพัฒนาทักษะด้านการลงทุนเพื่อสร้าง Passive Income หรือจัดเวลาให้เหมาะสมกับไลฟ์สไตล์ที่ต้องการ อีกข้อดีคือการมองเป้าหมายแนวนี้ช่วยให้เราไม่ยึดติดกับตำแหน่งงานหรือสายอาชีพที่เรียนมา เราสามารถยืดหยุ่นและพร้อมเรียนรู้สิ่งใหม่ ๆ เพื่อให้ไปถึงเป้าหมายได้ง่ายขึ้น และที่สำคัญคือทำให้เรามีแรงจูงใจในการลงมือทำจริง เพราะเป้าหมายมาจากความต้องการชีวิตของเราเอง ลองตั้งคำถามกับตัวเองว่า "อีก 5 ปี ฉันอยากใช้ชีวิตแบบไหน?" ตั้งเป้าหมายทั้งเรื่องรายได้ เวลาทำงาน และสุขภาพ แล้วลองคิดแผนพัฒนาตัวเองทีละก้าว เพื่อให้เป้าหมายเป็นจริง นอกจากนี้ การแชร์เป้าหมายในกลุ่มเพื่อนหรือชุมชนก็ช่วยเพิ่มแรงสนับสนุนและไอเดียใหม่ ๆ สำหรับการเดินทางสู่ชีวิตที่ต้องการได้อย่างน่าสนใจ

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