Monarch Wedding @theknotrealweddings (on insta)

Making this post for my future wedding inspo….

When me and my boyfriend first starting dating, he took me to this gorgeous museum of habitats. There they had a habitat full of monarch, Limenitis arthemis, and Spicebush swallowtail butterflies (my favorite). They were the most beautiful butterflies, the way the black faded into the iridescent blue. He’s taken me back there every year around the time of our anniversary. So I am saving this post to have for my future wedding. Here is how I will tweak it…

• My butterflies will be black & blue (Spicebush swallowtails) 🦋

• I don’t want a white dress… I think it would be so gorgeous and different to find or have made a beautiful black full length ballgown with the iridescent blue creeping up the dress from the bottom. (Sort of like Blake Lively’s 2022 met gala look, but with these colors and a faster transition lol.) Or even a black dress for me and blue for the bridesmaids.

• I want the butterflies integrated elegantly… I don’t want the butterflies to be the main decor but instead an elegant touch.

I hope this provides someone with the extra inspiration they need to make their day, well, more them 💝💝💝

X♡X♡, Melody ♡

2024/11/13 Edited to

... Read moreWeddings are a celebration of love, and incorporating meaningful elements can make the day truly special. The idea of using butterflies as part of your wedding theme not only adds a touch of elegance but also symbolizes transformation and beauty. Black and blue butterflies, like the Spicebush swallowtails and Monarchs, can be stunning focal points. Consider incorporating small butterfly accents in your decor, such as on table settings, wedding invitations, or as part of a floral arrangement. For brides looking to break away from traditional white dresses, a black ballgown with iridescent blue details can create a striking and memorable look. Think of unique designs that reflect your personality and style. Collaborating with a designer who understands your vision can result in a gown that is not only beautiful but also embodies your personal story. Additionally, don't forget about your bridal party! Dressing bridesmaids in matching or complementary colors will help create a cohesive look while allowing for individuality. Adding subtle butterfly accessories can tie everything together beautifully. As you plan your wedding, remember that details matter. Personalized elements that reflect your shared history, like the inspiration drawn from those annual visits to the butterfly exhibit, can turn your wedding day into a beautiful narrative of your love story.

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