Let’s have a real girl talk✨

Behind this serene face, I was spiraling. Hitting 3 food pantries weekly while dropping thousands on cameras I couldn't afford. My manic episode had me hoarding groceries at Grandma's house while my bank account flatlined.

The darkness? My brain convinced me I could be an overnight success while my reality was crumbling. No one knew. Not my kids. Just me and my racing thoughts at 3AM.

This healing girl era taught me: Sometimes you gotta completely break before you rebuild. The equipment I "had no business buying" is now the foundation of my empire.

Mamas - we carry everyone's weight until we collapse. Check on your strong friend. She might be drowning behind that smile.

Building different now. Free from what no longer serves me. Slower. Boundaries intact. With purpose. 🤎

#girltalk #lemon8challenge #mentalhealthawareness #letschat #mentalhealthmatters

2025/5/14 Edited to

... Read moreMental health awareness is crucial for understanding our own emotional well-being and supporting those around us. Many people may seem fine from the outside, but they could be fighting battles internally. It's essential to recognize the signs of someone in distress—changes in behavior, withdrawal from social activities, or uncharacteristic mood swings can signify deeper issues. Engaging in conversations about mental health can foster connection and provide much-needed support. Sharing personal experiences, like those described in the article, can also normalize struggles and encourage others to seek help. Moreover, setting boundaries is vital for maintaining mental health. This reinforces the idea that we are not solely responsible for the happiness of others and allows for personal growth and recovery. Learning to prioritize self-care can lead to healthier relationships and a more fulfilling life. Remember, reaching out, listening, and being present makes a significant difference in someone’s journey towards healing.

Related posts

Let’s have a real girl talk 🤗
Hot Girl Era vs Healing Girl Era 💗 Hot Girl Era: • High energy • Outside every weekend • Makeup on, selfies loaded 📸 • Saying “yes” to everything • Masking your pain with aesthetics Healing Girl Era: • Soft boundaries + hard truths
ciciimariee

ciciimariee

539 likes

Let’s have a girl talk
1. Self-care routine: Pamper yourself with skincare, haircare, and regular exercise. You'll feel amazing and look even better! 2. Fashion upgrade: Try out some new outfits that make you feel confident and sassy. Experiment with colors and styles that highlight your personality. 3. Positive mi
Niya 🎀

Niya 🎀

68 likes

Let’s have a real girl talk✨
I had a moment yesterday where I really felt it. You know those days when your mind just spirals and nothing feels good enough? Two phrases kept looping in my head like a broken record: “I hate my life.” “I can’t believe this is my life.” And I had to pause… breathe… and pray. Because deep
Latressa 🎀

Latressa 🎀

9 likes

Let’s have a girl talk 💐
1. Needing space. I used to feel guilty about this, but I’ve learned that having space is ESSENTIAL. Not selfish. Sometimes I just need to be in my own world, and that’s okay. My peace matters the most to me. 2. Taking a while to respond. Sometimes I simply just don’t have the energy. It doesn
Shay

Shay

936 likes

Let’s have a real talk
Us moms stick with these 4 hairstyles: Messy buns, ponytails, simple braids, or it lays flat on our face a mess. ( I know I do these, lol). It's finding a new updo that doesn't involve certain products, brushes, heck even certain hair ties. I want to see more easy hairstyles that I can do w
Haleigh

Haleigh

57 likes

Let’s have a real girl talk✨
There are some truths I never thought I’d say out loud… Like how grief shows up in quiet ways. How I’m scared I might never get to experience motherhood naturally. How healing feels like both freedom and loss. How soft doesn’t always mean safe. But I’m learning: The more I say it, the mor
Jai

Jai

32 likes

Let’s Talk About Manifestation
Girl, let me tell you, sometimes it feels like your life is falling apart right before a breakthrough. That’s exactly what happened when my husband and I were trying to get a new car. A few years ago, we bought this sleek black Jeep. We were hyped for all the adventures ahead. But two months in,
therealashlimccoy

therealashlimccoy

24 likes

Let’s talk Period’s 🩸
Your period is nothing to be ashamed about! Here are a few things that I’ve learned over the years that I’m sharing with you! If you have any questions don’t be afraid to comment! 🥰 #periods #periodrealtalk #periodstruggles #dontbeashamed #womanhood
kenzi♡

kenzi♡

1067 likes

A side-by-side comparison of a woman's body transformation, showing her at 155 lbs in a black crop top and pants on the left, and at 125 lbs in a leopard print bikini on the right, reflecting in a mirror.
A graph illustrating a weight loss journey from an average of 152 lbs in May 2024 to 124.9 lbs in April 2025, with text emphasizing "Healthy weight loss."
A collage of four images showing healthy and balanced food options, including a poke bowl, ingredients for cooking, a salad with cheese, and a dinner table set with various dishes.
From 152+ to 124 lbs, let’s talk about it
No crash diets. No magic supplements. Just real effort, discipline, and a lot of learning. I won’t lie sticking to a routine when you’re mentally drained, working full time, or just feeling drained is tough. But the truth is: your body will not wait for the “perfect time.” You only get one body
Lariii

Lariii

914 likes

Let’s have a real talk
2025!!!!!!! Is finally here and we have all long awaited its arrival with our 12 grapes under tables, colored under wear and sage and cinnamon rituals not to mention all the beautiful recaps of how amazing 2024 has been to all of us. Now we head into the season of goals and fasting and manifestat
Nesi

Nesi

4 likes

Let’s have a real talk
Why is it so hard to just survive now days? 2 income house hold, a baby on the way but not enough money... I had a sonogram appointment today and because I have an outstanding balance they almost didn't see me. I can't afford to pay any of these bills. I am so incredibly stressed and nee
Heather Bailes

Heather Bailes

0 likes

Let’s have a real talk
How do you know when something just isn’t for you anymore? I had this deep conversation with a friend today about the pressure to keep pushing ourselves—especially when starting a business. We’re told to try, try, and try again, but how do you know when it’s time to pivot or even walk away? Is ther
Thatgirlzeee☆

Thatgirlzeee☆

3 likes

A YouTube video thumbnail featuring a woman on a couch with text "Losing My Mom on Thanksgiving" and "Holiday Grief," accompanied by a broken heart and a dove, indicating a story time about grief and seasonal depression.
A YouTube video thumbnail showing a woman holding a microphone, with text "Has Grief Changed My View of God & Faith?" and "keepin it real," suggesting an honest discussion about faith after losing her mom.
A YouTube video thumbnail featuring a woman on a couch, with text "Feeling Too Shy For YouTube? Watch This!" indicating a video about confidence hacks for starting YouTube as a shy person.
let’s talk REAL LIFE sh!t ▶️my YouTube channel🩷
~save!~ My 1st few vids are live on YouTube! I’m overcoming my fear of speaking on camera & getting more comfortable making videos. I’ve had my podcast for about 2yrs now but I’ve always wanted to do vids too but been too scared! No more excuses👏🏽 come hang out w me! YouTube Maura Sullivan tho
Maura Sullivan

Maura Sullivan

19 likes

A title slide with the text "LET'S TALK: Visitation dreams" in black font on a light beige background with subtle shadows. The Lemon8 logo and username are in the bottom left corner.
A text slide defining visitation dreams as visits from Spirit (loved ones, guides, entities) during a relaxed state, allowing soul travel and easier communication. The Lemon8 logo and username are at the bottom.
A text slide explaining how to recognize a real visitation dream by the intense emotions of love and joy felt during the experience. It mentions comfort, reassurance, and messages from Spirit. The Lemon8 logo is visible.
✨ Visitation Dreams ✨ Let’s talk about them!
Happy Saturday! 💫 I hope everyone is having a lovely weekend. Let’s dive into the topic of ✨ VISITATION DREAMS ✨ The reason I decided to make this post is because last night I had another visitation dream with someone I miss dearly. And I realized as I was telling a friend about it, that some
Bailey 🖤

Bailey 🖤

37 likes

Let’s have a real talk
Real truth — last summer there was no way I would have ever worn this. Nope. Not a flippin chance Today I am PROUD well first I was completely flabbergasted because I couldn’t believe I have a healthy looking body but I FEEL so dang good! When I found my online weight loss program I was skep
Moll | MOM LIFE

Moll | MOM LIFE

178 likes

Let’s talk about. Tap in 👇🏾
Sis, you’re already posting, so why not turn that content into consistent cash? Social media monetization isn’t just about getting paid for views, it’s about using the content you’re already creating to attract buyers, build trust, and make sales on autopilot. When you have the right strate
therealashlimccoy

therealashlimccoy

5 likes

Let’s have a real talk, sis.
Let’s have a real talk, sis. You’re out here grinding, making more money than you ever have before. Maybe you’ve hit that $5K, $8K, or even $15K a month mark. But somehow, you’re still feeling the pinch at the end of the month. How does that happen? Let’s break it down because just havin
therealashlimccoy

therealashlimccoy

3 likes

A woman with long dark hair and a cross necklace smiles in a car, with "Christian Girlie Real Talk" text overlay, introducing her faith journey.
An outdoor restaurant patio at night, illuminated by string lights, with tables set for dining and people enjoying a girls' night out.
A person holds a coffee cup while seated, watching a speaker on a large screen at a church service or event, with the text "God ministers to us."
Christian Girlie - Let me be real
Day 1 of this Lemon8 Diary Challenge My life use to consist of finding value and fun in a lot of the wrong places . In the moment it seems normal and “fulfilling “ but in reality my life style of choice only lead me to anxiety, chaos and emptiness . I’ve always had a relationship with God b
Issa Barahona

Issa Barahona

25 likes

Let’s have a real talk
Drop some things you would tell yourself if you could do it all again? Remember, you still have time to try new things also… life isn’t over yet #lemon8challenge #lemon8 #letschat
Bera Higgs 🍉

Bera Higgs 🍉

0 likes

Girl let’s talk about press ons!!!!
Hi I’m new here.!!! I’ve been a press on girlie for about two years. I love the versatility in press ons. Just being able to change them weekly with no damage to my real nails. Here’s my collection so far. One website that I’m in love with when it comes to press on nails is Temu. Take your time an
jeyisa noel

jeyisa noel

264 likes

REAL TALK: vent abt ur insecurities
let’s uplift each other in the comments, share an insecurity and uplift someone else who commented! i would say i’m insecure about my level of intelligence. i feel like people think i’m smart but ive made so many mistakes that go against that idea. silly mistakes that i feel like most ppl woul
Emily Gonzalez

Emily Gonzalez

909 likes

Let’s talk about OB
I was execited about doing OB since I have 2 little ones and I know how the process is but is not the same learning a topic than a real life experience. Is super hard this class and I though it was going to be easy. Every single exam it’s been a nightmare. But still on the passing grade happy and t
Fanny Ramos

Fanny Ramos

202 likes

An open Bible with a pen resting on its pages, placed on a cozy blanket. The image includes study supplies like markers and another book in the background. An overlay reads 'My Bible Lesson Today (learning to love life)', reflecting a personal moment of reflection and learning.
A Real Talk on Gratitude
I’ve been wrestling with something lately, and I feel like I need to share it. For weeks now, I’ve been hearing this persistent message: “Stop being ungrateful, live a real life, be grateful, and be happy.” It’s come up in every church lesson, every devotional, and honestly, it’s been an easy convi
Kenz

Kenz

13 likes

Sis, feeling ‘less than’? Let’s talk about it. 💭
Combating Insecurity: How to Stop Feeling “Less Than”🌸 Sis, let’s be real—life is hard enough without the added pressure of insecurity and feelings of inadequacy. 😩 It’s tough not to compare yourself to your boyfriend’s ex, that random IG baddie with 100K followers, or anyone who seems to have i
Chrissy 💗

Chrissy 💗

22 likes

A close-up of a pink Lip Smackers Lip Frosting tube with glitter, featuring text overlays like "Girl Talk..." and "YALL REMEMBER THIS Nostalgic LIP CARE BRAND ???".
A packaged Lip Smackers Vanilla Frosting lip gloss, described as a favorite, with cupcake illustrations on the packaging and text indicating it's a moist shimmer gloss.
A packaged Bonne Bell Cosmic Lip Sparkler in Celestial Strawberry flavor, a glittery lip gloss, with text stating "Let lips SPARKLE and SHIMMER like the Good STARS!".
💕Let's talk some nostalgia girls👄
This used to be my favorite brand by Bonne Bell the old make up brand who made smackers and lip rush and lip shake...swipe to see all of them, the ones that were my favorite and which ones I wanted to try 💕 TELL ME IN THE COMMENTS ABOUT YOU MEMORIES WITH THESE OR ANY OTHER BRAND NOT LISTED THAT
Rani M🦋

Rani M🦋

377 likes

let's get real 🫶
so toxic leaders, have you had one? let me talk to you for a minute. have you ever been so overwhelmed and stressed at work but you CANT QUIT, because it's your entire livelihood depends on it!? yeah, that's my current situation. working in social services I have yet to find a company that
MJ Moon 🌙

MJ Moon 🌙

2 likes

REAL TALK.
A whole lot of healing, but worth it. Because growth introduced me to the very best version of myself. I’m only 26 so I know there’s still so much more yet to learn. ✨ Everyone’s story is different, I just pray you know how worthy you are. These challenges in life whatever shape or form, can rea
Sally⚡️

Sally⚡️

26 likes

Love is Blind: Let’s Talk ! I’m Upset 😒🤬
Alright, ladies, gather around because we need to dish about the latest episode of "Love is Blind". Strap in because there's some serious drama to unpack here. Now, full disclosure, I'm totally hooked on the show, but let's be real, that finale at the altar? It had my jaw on the
Jatrela

Jatrela

21 likes

Let’s Talk Fragrance/Perfume
About two years ago I got rid of my entire fragrance collection. Truth is my stash consisted entirely of Bath & Body Works and Victoria Secret sprays. Lets be real here, they have had us all in a choke hold at some time or another. After getting rid of everything I just wasn’t all that interest
Bre Metcalf

Bre Metcalf

36 likes

Let’s talk✨SELF CARE✨ it’s so good for your brain🫶
Let’s talk about how self care is so needed, yet why do we make ourselves feel guilty for doing something for ourselves? Grab a coffee. Take a walk. Take a nap. Take a bath. It’s okay to set aside time even when it feels as if you don’t have it. Being a mother, a full time student; it seems as if I
Kayla Salt🤍

Kayla Salt🤍

2 likes

A glass mug of coffee sits on a wooden surface next to stacked books. White text overlays read "Freedom Real Talk" and "Lemon8 @myhome_toyours_". A white heart and abstract lines are also overlaid.
Let’s talk Work life balance | Freedom
Stop glorifying the person that works all night or all weekend, and rather praise the person who succeeds in finding a balance between work, family, and rest. Our culture in “workaholic” is the main reason we are seeing an increase in mental, emotional, and physical burnout. Coming from a perso
Rachel

Rachel

5 likes

Let’s get Real #realtalk
#RealTalk #dj #producer #housemusic #marriedlife
BBTG

BBTG

3 likes

Silhouettes of several women against a blue sky, with one woman making a peace sign. Overlay text reads 'Girl Talk WOMEN 30+ ADVICE NEEDED'. The Lemon8 logo and username '@m.a.r.i.a.h37' are visible in the bottom left.
Girl Talk: Turning 30…Let’s Talk About It
Many women feel a sense of panic as they approach the 3-0. While it is normal, I think it would be nice to have a conversation to mitigate some of those fears. I am turning 30 in March and would love to hear what women over 30 have found to be their favorite things about being in their 30’s and adv
M a r i a h 🦋

M a r i a h 🦋

1 like

Anxiety ( let’s talk a bit)
#lemon8diarychallenge Anxiety : can be normal in stressful situations such as public speaking or taking a test. Anxiety is only an indicator of underlying disease when feelings become excessive, all-consuming, and interfere with daily living. That’s the definition they will give you, howeve
destiny✨☀️

destiny✨☀️

4 likes

On some real SH*t!! Let’s talk
Ok ok.. where do I start… 1. Yes, I create digital products but I’m not trying to sell nothing today lol I’m trying to see something.. 2. My adult life started at 18 straight out of HS. Young, dumb and working for $7.50 at the whataburger. (Yes I’m from Texas :)) 3. I didn’t start wanting
Sarah Harts

Sarah Harts

3 likes

A person is getting a tattoo on their lower leg, with a tattoo artist's gloved hands visible. Another person sits nearby. Text overlays read "Real talk" and "What tattoo talk??".
A tattoo artist, wearing gloves, works on a person's lower leg. The image emphasizes communication during a tattoo session, with text about being assertive and speaking up.
A person with an ice pack on their arm looks at the camera, while another person is in the background. The text discusses taking breaks, hydration, and bringing numbing cream for a tattoo.
Real talk let’s talk tattoo
#lemon8diarychallenge
Violet Smith

Violet Smith

1 like

Let’s talk about real estate
If you were to work with a real estate agent, what would you look for in them? Would popping by with things like these be awesome for you? How did you find your real estate agent? #missouri #missourirealtor #realestateagent #realestate #realtorlife #realtor #letsworktogether #bu
Hope Nicole

Hope Nicole

33 likes

A light green background features a white rounded rectangle with the question: 'If you could go back in time and give advice to your 18-year-old self, what would it be?'. Below it, 'Let's talk about it' appears next to a light orange mug with steam. A blue clip design is at the top right.
Let’s have a real talk
#letschat #lemon8comment #talkingtopic #chat #communitybuilding
Jessica Martin

Jessica Martin

9 likes

✨Real talk Tuesday🤍
Sis you are doing the damn thang and DON’T let anyone tell you otherwise 💯👌, YOU are that Women 💋!!! Sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone and be uncomfortable in order to get to where you want to be 💚💚 you got it girl just keep pushing baes and make yourself proud ❗️❗️ #embracevulne
Leah sweet

Leah sweet

20 likes

See more