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36 years ago. I learned that...

A 36-year-old idea of a scrappy life.

1. Not comparing yourself to anyone. And not comparing yourself to before is best.

2. You should not stick to the past because it has passed. Just keep a good story in your memory that makes you smile.

3. Loving yourself is not selfish. Refusing sometimes makes us not tired.

4. We have one in the world, even if we look at the world as beautiful or as bad, but everything is just a fraction of us, not all.

5. Everything is uncertain. Happiness or suffering. It will pass.

6. The words of people do not hurt us as much as our thoughts of thinking about it repeatedly.

7. The person who is most with us is ourselves, very merciful to him, forgiving and funny in his little mistakes.

8. Graduation or degree does not indicate a person's ability, it just says that he is responsible for his duties, work experience is more important, not to insult anyone with academic qualifications or grades.

9. Keeping other people's insults as a driving force does not apply on unsuccessful days because it will make us trapped that we are what they really say.

10. The voice of our heart is always important. If we force and force ourselves to love what we can't, it will haunt us until one day we have to surrender and return to it ourselves.

11. It's not too late to start doing what you like today. Don't wait for the perfect. Don't worry about the results. Just finish and be happy enough.

Anyone have anything you've learned in your life? Can share.

# Good ideas # Life review # Want to tell # Thought sediment

6/15 Edited to

... Read moreในวัย 36 ปีของฉัน การได้ผ่านบทเรียนชีวิตหลากหลายรูปแบบทำให้เข้าใจมากขึ้นว่าชีวิตไม่ได้สมบูรณ์แบบและไม่ต้องสมบูรณ์แบบก็ได้ บางครั้งการไม่เปรียบเทียบตัวเองกับใครเป็นเรื่องยาก แต่ช่วยลดความกดดันและความวิตกกังวลได้จริงๆ การรักตัวเองนั้นไม่ใช่การเห็นแก่ตัว แต่เป็นการให้ความสำคัญกับสุขภาพกายและใจ เมื่อเรียนรู้ที่จะปฏิเสธในสิ่งที่ทำให้เหนื่อยล้า ก็เหมือนเรากำลังดูแลตัวเองอย่างมีสติ และการยอมรับว่าความผิดพลาดหรือความไม่สมบูรณ์แบบเป็นส่วนหนึ่งของตัวเราเองก็ช่วยให้ใจสงบและรักตัวเองมากขึ้น สิ่งที่ฉันพบคือความรู้ ความสามารถในชีวิตและประสบการณ์จริงมีค่ามากกว่าปริญญาหรือผลการเรียน เพราะมันแสดงถึงความรับผิดชอบและการเติบโตภายใน บางครั้งคำพูดของคนอื่นอาจทำร้ายเรา แต่การที่เรามัวแต่คิดวนซ้ำซากถึงคำพูดเหล่านั้น จะยิ่งเพิ่มความทุกข์ ฉันจึงพยายามฝึกคิดบวกและให้อภัยตัวเองเมื่อทำผิดพลาด การเริ่มต้นทำสิ่งที่ชอบโดยไม่ต้องรอให้พร้อมสมบูรณ์แบบ เป็นหนึ่งในข้อคิดที่เปลี่ยนชีวิต ฉันได้ลองหลายอย่างที่ชอบและพบว่าความสุขจากการลงมือทำมีค่ามากกว่าความสมบูรณ์แบบที่รอคอย สุดท้ายนี้ ฉันอยากชวนทุกคนที่อ่านบทความนี้มาแบ่งปันเรื่องราวและข้อคิดชีวิตที่ได้เรียนรู้ในแต่ละวัน เพราะทุกคนมีเรื่องราวที่มีคุณค่าและสอนให้เราเติบโตเหมือนกัน

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