Sometimes love... doesn't bring us happiness, but it brings "wake up."
Sometimes love... doesn't bring us happiness.
But it takes us "awake."
Wake up from the old self.
Awake from the habituation we thought was safe.
And wake up from the kind of love we've "always misunderstood."
Changes made in relationships
It's not what's hurting you.
But it is the "moving force of the soul."
That is pushing you out of the original version.
To a "truer, deeper and freer" version.
Many people hurt...
It's not because love is gone.
But because the "original form of love" is breaking down,
From the ever-adjacent → to the distance.
From ever clarity → becoming uncertainty.
From ever reassuring → becoming a flicker inside.
And my heart cried that
"Why isn't it the same..."
But listen...
It's not broken.
It's just "developing."
Deep-level love
It was never designed to be comfortable.
But it's designed to
"Unleash what's not your real self."
Feminine Energy will feel deep.
Miss you, yearn, want to be close
"Do I still matter?"
Masculine Energy will retreat.
Quiet.
Manage yourself.
Trying to understand what he himself still can't explain.
And then it became a cycle...
The closer we want → he retreats.
The more he retreats → the more we feel insecure.
And we accidentally thought
"This love is hurting us."
But the truth is...
Things that are distressing us
Not love.
But "a fraction in us."
That still wants to control
That still feels insecure.
Still afraid of loss.
And this is the turning point.
The day you stopped chasing,
Stop forcing everything to be clear.
Stop tying your own values to the actions of another person.
Some power will change immediately.
You'll start to stagnate.
Lighten up.
Not because of not loving
But because you're "back in love with yourself."
And when you're full from the inside,
You won't need anyone to fill in.
But you "choose" to connect with your own heart.
This level of relationship.
Won't be a seizure. Possession anymore.
But it is.
"Standing beside each other... without both of them getting lost in themselves."
If you're hurting today,
Don't rush to blame the relationship.
Don't rush to blame him.
And don't rush to blame yourself.
But ask yourself...
"What am I really afraid of now?"
Afraid of losing him
Afraid he left
Fear is not dear.
Or afraid that "I will have no value."
Because as soon as you see this truth,
You're not broken.
You'll be "back."
Back with yourself.
Back in your power.
And come back as someone who doesn't have to cry for love.
But "someone who is already in love."
And then the relationship will change by itself.
Without you having to force anything.
Because you are love
😍
With love from the heart
Wicker teacher
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