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Have you ever been confused... between "he feels for me" and "he's really ready to take care of me?"

Have you ever been confused...

Between "he feels for me."

With "He's really ready to take care of me."

These two

It's not the same story at all.

A man who "wants her."

He will come in whizzing power.

Hi

Miss you

Want to meet

Want to have her nearby

He made her "feel precious."

But never made her "stable."

Because of what he responded to.

Is "my own feelings."

Not "relationship responsibility."

.

.

But a man who's "ready for her."

He doesn't have to try to confuse her.

Because of his power.

It was clear from the beginning.

✔️ He's obviously serious.

✔️ He's obviously staying.

✔️ You obviously don't have to guess.

He didn't make her have to.

Wait.

Scared.

Or think for him

Because he's already handled himself.

People who haven't healed.

Will love like "want."

The one that healed.

Will love "responsible"

And the fact that many women don't want to accept is...

She's not addicted to that person.

She was addicted to "the feelings he used to give."

So she tried to endure

So she tried to understand

With obscurity.

Hopefully someday

He will become a ready man.

But the truth is...

"People who aren't ready.

He will not gradually become ready.

In a relationship with her. "

And here it is.

Is where her powers should change.

Not asking that.

"Will he choose me?"

But should ask

"Why do I still succumb to this kind of obscurity?"

A woman who really knows self-worth.

Won't be struck by the power of "craving."

Because she knows that.

Craving

It came quickly... and quickly.

But readiness.

It's still... and it's long.

She didn't want to.

Someone who "feels for her."

She wants

Someone who "is ready to hold life space with her."

And the day she stopped accepting

A relationship that makes her smaller.

That day.

People who are "not ready."

Will fall out by itself

Without her having to push at all.

Because of her new power.

Will attract only people who

Obviously.

Still

And true.

Like her in the version that

"Choose yourself." Obviously. Really. 💫

😍

With love from the heart

Wicker teacher

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