This is why someone can't move on.

This is why

Why can't someone move on?

Sometimes...

The one we can't release yet.

It may not always be "the right person."

But the one who pushed to touch the "old scar."

That we've been trying to escape our whole lives.

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We miss him all day.

Wait for the message.

Waiting for the return.

Waiting for the day he will choose us.

Deep down, we know...

He doesn't even take care of our hearts.

But why still can't come out?

Because what is hurting

Probably not "adult heart."

But it's "the little boy in us."

That was never loved the way it wanted.

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That kid...

Probably grew up in a house that had to try to be a good kid.

To get attention

May grow up with being ignored

No one's listening.

No one really sees the feeling.

So spend my whole life...

Out looking for someone

To make sense.

"I Matter"

"I'm precious."

"I'm worthy of love."

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And when someone comes in,

Give a little warmth.

So we accidentally took all the hearts to leave with him

Like a lost child who finds the night lights.

Not because he's perfect.

But because he touched

The "lack" that is very deep in our hearts.

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Many people call this "love."

But really, it's probably just...

Taking one person

Become an "anesthetic."

Let us not have to feel our own original wound.

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Therefore miss him all the time

Create a story in your head.

Imagining the future

Look at him like a hero.

In fact...

He's just an ordinary human being.

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The day it really started healing.

Not a "quit feeling" date.

But the day we started to see the truth

What we're looking for in him.

Actually,

Is something we never gave to ourselves.

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We want him to choose us.

Because we never choose ourselves

We want him to appreciate

Because deep down, we don't appreciate ourselves.

We want him to stay forever.

Because inside, we still feel "insecure" when alone.

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And this is why

Why can't someone move on?

Not because of too much love.

But because of the old scar...

Haven't been truly embraced.

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Remedies

Not finding someone to replace

But is to go back to that child in my heart.

And tell him that.

"It's okay...

From now on, I will never leave you again. "

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The day you start to embrace and replenish yourself.

You'll stop looking for life support.

And start having love.

That is not caused by "lack."

But really caused by "inner fullness."

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With love from the heart

Wicker teacher

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