The sanctity of loving yourself.

The sanctity of loving yourself.

Humans have been taught all their lives that

"Think of others first."

"Be sacrificed."

"Be nice."

Until finally...

We start to feel guilty every time we choose ourselves.

We are afraid of rejection.

Afraid of saying "no."

Afraid of rest

Afraid of living for yourself

Because deep down, we believe

"If I'm overly happy, I'm being selfish."

But look at the truth

People who never fill themselves.

Instead, trying to fill the whole world

Someone who never loved himself.

Instead, trying to give love to others

Someone who never knew peace.

Instead, trying to make peace for the world.

Is it really possible?

You can't give what you don't have.

This is the simplest rule of life.

If the inside is full of fear,

What was sent out was also contaminated by fear.

If the inside is full of a lack of self-acceptance,

Even the love given to others.

Is stealthy with expectations.

We'll call it love.

But literally,

It's a bargain.

"I gave her..."

"So she must love me."

"Must Not Leave Me"

"Must see my worth."

This is not love.

This is hunger.

And hungry people.

There is no way to satisfy another hungry person.

Flowers don't bloom for anyone.

Flowers never asked that.

Who will walk by today?

Is it a rich man or a poor man?

Be a good person or a bad person.

It just blooms.

Because its nature is blooming.

The fragrance then floats away by itself.

No choice

Not judging.

No thanks expected

True love is like that.

It's not a duty.

But it is the result of a blooming heart.

The relationship failed because two people were asking

Many people enter into relationships.

To make someone fill a life.

But when the two of them are all empty,

Both demanded

Each is waiting for the other to make himself happy.

Finally, there was disappointment.

It's not because there's no love.

But because no one has enough love left to give

A healthy relationship.

Not two people helping to carry

But are two people

Each person walks with a full heart.

And then share the overflow.

From sacrifice to sharing.

Sacrifice often comes with expectations.

"I Did It for Her"

So...

"She must repay me."

But sharing has no debt of gratitude.

It's like a cloud full of rain.

When the time comes,

It let down the rain.

Not because of duty

But because it's full

A full heart.

There's no need to try to be nice.

It's shared by nature.

Change the world by changing yourself.

A lot of people want to save the world.

But have never returned to save their own hearts.

We're trying to heal someone else's wounds.

Both the wounds themselves smell of blood.

We want to make peace.

Both inside are still full of war.

The world doesn't need people who are exhausted by sacrifice.

The world needs really happy people.

Because happy people

There's no need to hurt anyone.

Love itself is the gateway to immortality.

Many people mistake that.

Loving yourself

Is to put yourself at the center

But the truth is the opposite.

When we love ourselves deeply

We will gradually stop running for acceptance from the world.

Stop competing.

Stop comparing

Stop proving yourself.

When there's nothing to prove.

The ego is getting thinner.

And when the ego becomes thinner,

What's left.

Is love

It's not love to try to create.

But a spontaneous love.

Like the shining sun

Like a tree that provides shade.

Like a flowing river.

Not because of duty

But because that's the nature of it.

"Don't be exhausted, but fill yourself up.

And share from that overflow. "

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With love from the heart

Wicker teacher

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