When there are no answers, wisdom grows.
The parents of smart children are doing it
I compiled an unexpected habit.
Pretend not to know rather than to be wise.
② Return a "question that deepens your thinking" rather than a "refutation"
③ Only say one thing at a time
④ Separate emotions and facts.
End the conversation with "What do you think?"
⑥ Speak with a "name" to the emotion
⑦ Deepen the meaning of words together
8. Sharing failure stories as learning
Leave "boredom" without filling schedule
What they all have in common is,
Don't rush the answer.
So even if you ask questions
Because I thought so.
Even if there are days when only such a reply comes back,
It's not a mistake.
That's
Even if you're not thinking
It's not a shallow idea,
I just can't find the words yet.
Thought is,
Before it comes out
I need time to grow in my heart.
At that time,
Don't force me to explain.
Which one of them did you think the most?
"Is it close to a happy feeling? Or is it cloudy?"
"Which is closer, A or B?"
Rather than pulling out words,
Make it easy to choose.
Just that, your thoughts move forward.
Even when only the same answer is returned,
The ability to think is growing 🌱
Don't rush, it's okay.
Today's call,
Today's "Waiting Attitude"
Everything is the basis of thought.
💡 thought, "Same here..."
So I can look back later
Put it away gently 🍀
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Mitamo ︎ *
Mom of two children / Former children's center / School children's site 17 years
Retirement at the limit of mind
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