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To you who still have a sense of discomfort that no one can say

The condition for people to change is not talent.

About this myself.

I experienced it and felt it.

Just understanding it with my head didn't change anything.

But, uh,

I noticed a sense of incompatibility, "Is it okay to stay like this?"

Admit weakness.

For what I want to protect

When I didn't stop moving small

Life began to move quietly.

It doesn't have to be perfect.

It's okay to remain afraid.

The reason it changed was not because it was special.

I just continued to be prepared and take action.

It's okay for you to stop now.

The change has already begun.

My thoughts are also summarized in other posts

Please take a peek if you like 📝

Put it away gently 🍀

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Mitamo ︎ *

Mom of two children / Former children's center / School children's site 17 years

Retirement at the limit of mind

Build a source of income at home with SNS 🌱

a way of working that allows you to be yourself again.

We are making it together 🕊️

Home work that is not unreasonable,

We are sending hints on how to work 🍀

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Come on, good luck 2026

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