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Review Yourself in 40 (Lots of Descent Lessons)

At this age, I can say I'm not playing around. A lot of lessons, but if May makes an emphatic conclusion that I want to tell everyone, follow this.

1. The iron rule "forbid" is absolute! (Mind must always be young)

The first thing that May will never exchange is brilliance. May learns that age is only a number. We have to maintain some childish habits. Doubt, courage, try wrong, playfulness. These things make our world wider. May will always be a child because fun energy will attract good things into life.

2. Learn from losing the "dearest man."

The great loss taught May that nothing is sustainable. This lesson is very expensive, but it gives May a tighter "hug the present," love the person who should love when there is a chance, and do not waste time on the debilitating little things, because we do not know if tomorrow will wake up to the person we love again.

3. Toxic friends...Better not waste

May removes a lot of people from life at this age because he has learned that having a lot of friends is "toxic" or impairs our energy. It's fucking mental health. Having only one real friend who can talk about anything or even being alone peacefully is better than sitting among people who are toxic.

4. Love "If there is, then it is not good. Single, let the world remember."

Through so many men that I can see clearly. May said that if love is already there, it does not make our lives better or be with and more tired. May chooses "single" gracefully. We do not block love, but we set the standard high enough not to diminish it for anyone who destroys our happiness. If not bang, do not promote each other, May would like to be beautiful alone!

💡 What May wants to leave:

"Life in our 40s is a time when we have to love ourselves as much as possible, choose the best for ourselves, and dare to throw away what is not...And you will find true happiness. "

# Love experience # Relationship narrative # Trick love # Consult love # Self review

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... Read moreการก้าวเข้าสู่วัย 40 เป็นช่วงเวลาที่เต็มไปด้วยการเรียนรู้และการเปลี่ยนแปลงอย่างลึกซึ้งในชีวิตส่วนตัวและความคิดของเราเอง จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว ผมพบว่าการรักษาจิตใจให้สดใสและมีความเป็นเด็กอยู่เสมอเป็นกุญแจสำคัญที่ช่วยให้จิตใจยังคงแข็งแรงและเปิดรับสิ่งใหม่ๆ อยู่เสมอ ความรู้สึกสนุกสนานและความอยากรู้อยากเห็นนี้ไม่เพียงแต่ช่วยให้เราเติบโตทางด้านความคิดเท่านั้น แต่ยังเป็นพลังงานบวกที่จะดึงดูดสิ่งดีๆ เข้ามาในชีวิตอีกด้วย ความสูญเสียคนที่เรารักเป็นบทเรียนชีวิตที่เจ็บปวดแต่ล้ำค่า มันสอนให้เราเห็นคุณค่าของปัจจุบันและให้ความสำคัญกับความสัมพันธ์ที่แท้จริงที่เรามี เราเรียนรู้ที่จะปล่อยวางความเจ็บปวดจากสิ่งที่สูญเสียและโฟกัสไปที่การดูแลตัวเองและคนรอบข้าง อีกหนึ่งบทเรียนสำคัญคือการเลือกคบเพื่อนที่มีพลังบวกและทำให้เรามีสุขภาพจิตที่ดี การตัดขาดจากเพื่อนที่เป็นพิษทำให้ชีวิตสงบสุขขึ้นและช่วยให้เรามีพื้นที่ในการเติบโตอย่างแท้จริง แม้แต่การมีช่วงเวลาที่อยู่คนเดียวอย่างสงบก็ยังส่งเสริมความเข้มแข็งภายในตัวเรา ในเรื่องความรัก การมีมาตรฐานที่ชัดเจนและรักตัวเองอย่างแท้จริงเป็นสิ่งที่ไม่ควรมองข้าม การเลือกที่จะโสดอย่างสง่างามจนกว่าจะเจอความรักที่ส่งเสริมและเติมเต็มชีวิตจริงๆ คือการรักตัวเองที่ดีที่สุด และนี่คือคำแนะนำที่อยากให้ทุกคนในวัย 40 ขึ้นไปนำไปปรับใช้ สุดท้ายนี้ การรักตัวเองและตัดสินใจเลือกสิ่งที่ดีที่สุดให้ตัวเอง โดยไม่กลัวการปล่อยวาง จะนำพาเราสู่ความสุขที่แท้จริงในชีวิตวัย 40 ที่ไม่ได้เป็นเพียงตัวเลข แต่เป็นจุดเริ่มต้นของชีวิตใหม่ที่มีความหมายและเติมเต็มมากขึ้น

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