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Stop blaming yourself and take a step forward "3 magic words"

Too hard,

Are you stuck in reverse? 😢

Until now, the brain has maintained the status quo.

Mechanism to apply powerful brakes,

Perfectionism causes.

We talked about the "worst ending."

This time it will be the last time,

All those curses.

I will give you a lot of [cutting magic]!

Instead of protecting yourself,

Save 🔖 now

Please look back many times.

🧠 three magic words to break the curse of the heart

① "There is no point in aiming for 100%"

From what you saw a year ago, what are you now?

60% of yourself is 120% of someone else.

Perfect 100% does not exist in this world.

Even if it is 60% within yourself,

Even 20% is fine. The important thing is,

Even if it's scary, it's the courage to take a step forward as it is.

That being said,

If you are alone, no matter what.

Back to the original perfectionism. "

"I'm going to blame myself again soon..."

If you have such anxiety, I

Why don't you take a step with us?

to take a step forward

If you want to be reborn as yourself,

from my profile.

Direct DM with [one step]

Please send me a message 😊

(We will send you the details later!)

From next time,

It changed completely again

A new series is starting!

So as not to miss

Please follow ❤️ and wait ✨

💬 What is your "heart score" now?

Looking at myself a year ago,

How high do you think you are now?

A real tweet,

Let me know in the comments 👇

Goal Achieved The Perfectionism # mindset Rewriting the subconscious Change the way you live

3 days agoEdited to

... Read more完璧主義に悩んでいる方は多いですが、私自身も以前は「100%達成しなければ価値がない」と思い込み、自己評価が厳しすぎて何度も挫折してきました。しかし、この3つの魔法の言葉を意識してから、気持ちが楽になり、小さな一歩を踏み出せるようになりました。 例えば「100%なんて目指しても意味がない」という言葉は、自分に過度な期待をかけずに柔軟に考えることを教えてくれます。完璧を求めすぎると逆に行動が止まってしまうので、「60%でもいい、まずはやってみよう」と思えるだけで、気持ちが軽くなり挑戦しやすくなりました。 また、「1年前の自分から見て、今の自分は何点?」と自問することで、自分の成長に気づけます。私もふと振り返ると、確実に以前よりできることが増えていて、自己肯定感が向上しました。この比較は、過去の自分と現在の自分を比べることで「0か100か」の考えから抜け出せる効果的な方法です。 そして「自分の60%は、誰かの120%」という言葉は、自分の力や価値を過小評価しがちな心に響きます。周囲と比べて落ち込むのではなく、自分の持つ力の重要性を認めることで、自信が少しずつ芽生えてきます。これはマインドセットの書き換えにもつながり、潜在意識レベルで自分を励ます力になります。 完璧主義から脱却し、一歩踏み出す勇気を持つことは簡単ではありません。私も最初は不安や自己否定と闘いながらこの言葉を繰り返し唱えました。そして、少しずつ行動できるようになり、日々の生活も変わっていきました。皆さんも一人で抱え込まず、こうした魔法の言葉を味方にして、自分らしいペースで前に進んでみてくださいね。 最後に、もし一人で続けるのが難しい時は、この記事の著者が提案するように、仲間や専門家に相談するのも非常に効果的です。自分の心の点数を見つめ直しながら、温かいサポートとともに新たなステップを踏み出しましょう。

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