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"Words," wounds, or rewards of your choice!

Words are the easiest malicious weapon.

That creates wounds in the hearts of listeners.

People say...Finished talking there...

Maybe even forgot

People never remember...Listeners never forget.

Probably best explained...

Previously...We used to wonder

Why many people

To choose to use words that hurt other people's minds

Although good words are gifts

The simplest and costless good thing.

That we can give to others.

Until we discovered that

In fact, behind these words,

It's a wound in a person's heart.

That stamped the feeling of that wound.

Then said to the audience

He may not know or understand that...

Those words indirectly hurt other people's minds.

And took the wound of his heart.

Sent out as words that may hurt...

Undermined value...Undermined confidence...

Or create fear in the hearts of listeners.

We had the opportunity to read many books.

Have the opportunity to do psychotherapy with a psychologist.

Until we learned that...

People who say words that hurt other people's minds

Many people and many times

He may not even know or admit it.

That I have that wound.

And I don't even know his words.

Full of power and suffering.

Of how many wounds they have.

So many people might wonder,

It's normal to speak...

And when does it hurt other people?

From the intention of wanting to speak with good intentions

It turned out to be another meaning.

That impressed the hearts of the listeners...

And create a forward wound like that.

Write here...Just want to invite everyone to observe the wounds in their hearts...

Don't take wounds through our words...

To paste or imprint with other people

To continue hurting other people into a cycle.

That never ends again....

Give me your word...

Has been a gift to everyone you've met.

Good words that create good feelings in the hearts of the listeners.

Give me your word...

Has inspired

Let people think and improve themselves.

Give me your word...

It's a good energy that embraces the world.

It's not easy to do...We know very well

But you can start choosing...

To keep your words in the hearts of your listeners.

It's a wound that listeners have to endure.

Or a reward that people feel lucky in.

Don't let words heal your heart.

That was stamped with your wounds.

Pass it to the audience...And then it becomes a saying...

That hurt other people's hearts without even knowing

# Words hurt the mind # Heal my heart # Words change lives # Take care of yourself # Love yourself

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... Read moreในชีวิตจริง คำพูดกลายเป็นสะท้อนของจิตใจภายในได้อย่างชัดเจน หลายครั้งที่เราได้ยินคำพูดที่ดูเหมือนจะธรรมดา แต่กลับสร้างความรู้สึกเจ็บปวดในใจได้อย่างลึกซึ้ง ทั้งนี้เพราะคำพูดนั้นมีรากฐานจากบาดแผลเก่าในตัวผู้พูดเอง การใส่ใจสังเกตและทบทวนความรู้สึกตนเองก่อนพูด จึงช่วยลดโอกาสที่จะสร้างบาดแผลให้คนอื่นโดยไม่ตั้งใจได้มาก จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว เมื่อฉันเริ่มฝึกใช้คำพูดดีๆ ที่มีเจตนาดีและสร้างสรรค์ ฉันพบว่าความสัมพันธ์รอบข้างดีขึ้นอย่างมีนัยสำคัญ เพราะคนรอบตัวรู้สึกได้รับกำลังใจและความเข้าใจมากขึ้น ซึ่งช่วยให้ใจของพวกเขาเปิดกว้างและพร้อมรับฟังสิ่งที่ฉันจะสื่อสารได้ดีขึ้น นอกจากนี้ การรับรู้และยอมรับบาดแผลในตัวเอง จึงเป็นขั้นตอนสำคัญ เพื่อไม่ให้บาดแผลนั้นย้อนกลับมาทำร้ายตัวเองและผู้อื่น ผ่านคำพูดที่ออกมา การบำบัดด้วยการพูดคุยกับผู้เชี่ยวชาญหรือการเขียนบันทึกความรู้สึก ก็ช่วยให้เราได้นำความเจ็บปวดออกมาและเข้าใจต้นตอมากขึ้น สิ่งที่สำคัญที่สุดคือการตระหนักว่า "คำพูด" ไม่ใช่แค่เสียงที่ลอยผ่าน แต่เป็นพลังงานบางอย่างที่สามารถเยียวยาหรือทำร้ายจิตใจได้ในระยะยาว เราจึงมีสิทธิ์และความรับผิดชอบในการเลือกใช้คำพูดเป็นของขวัญที่สร้างสรรค์แก่ผู้อื่น หรือไม่ก็ทิ้งบาดแผลไว้ในใจของพวกเขาต่อไป ดังนั้น อย่าลืมให้เวลาหยุดคิดสักนิดก่อนพูด เราจะได้มั่นใจได้ว่าสิ่งที่เราส่งออกไป จะเป็นคำพูดที่ช่วยเติมเต็มและสร้างแรงบันดาลใจให้ดียิ่งขึ้นในชีวิตคนใกล้ตัวทุกคน

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