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Ever? We always do something for him. Then come to know if he doesn't like it or doesn't want it.

Why not tell... Then why not ask?

"Why don't you say you don't like it?"

"Why not tell before you decide?"

"Why not argue from the first time?"

Here is an example of a frustrating question with some people.

That we always do for him and find out later

He doesn't like it or doesn't want it.

2025/9/23 Edited to

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