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Ranking responses after saying “I love you”
Nickwilkins

Nickwilkins

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Stop saying you’re fine if you’re not
Be honest with yourself #healthylifestyle2024 #shareyourthoughts #mentalhealthawareness #faceyourself
𝐴𝑠𝘩𝑙𝑒𝑦 𝐵. (❁´◡`❁)

𝐴𝑠𝘩𝑙𝑒𝑦 𝐵. (❁´◡`❁)

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I'm not saying this is right..
exeggcute tea eggs: boil or steam eggs to desired doneness. I like mine so the yolks are just set and a little jammy. you do you. dump Chinese 5 spice, beet powder and black tea bags or leaves into a bowl and pour in hot water and gluten-free soy sauce or your favorite alternative. I just go
nick

nick

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A top-down view of two people's hands on a wooden table, one holding a mug and the other a bowl, with a small white dog nearby. Text asks, 'how long should you date before getting ENGAGED ?!'
A person is reflected in a round mirror above a sink, with text suggesting 4-5 years of dating to see compatibility through life changes like grief, job changes, moving, and financial pressures.
A person is reflected in a large mirror, with text explaining that time allows for individual and shared growth, revealing true colors during hardship before engagement.
considerations before saying ‘yes’ 💍
how long do you think you should date before getting engaged? please include if you’re single / married / divorced with this! I am 30 years old. I’m in a relationship. we’ve been together for 6.5 years and we are still learning so much about ourselves and each other. I’m glad we didn’t let socie
allison wetig

allison wetig

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Instead of saying “you’re okay.” ❤️‍🩹
Here’s what I say instead ❣️ #parenting #motherhood #baby #toddler #mom
Motherhood And Montessori

Motherhood And Montessori

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Legend has it we’re still saying WOW 😂
over this Korean corndog HAHAHA! 🌭 We were so full, but we just couldn’t stop eating haha! Obviously we had to try the Korean corndog! And WOW—it's so good! Seriously, how is nobody talking about this? It’s absolutely amazing! We loved it so much that we accidentally created a big line af
TwoSolesAbroad

TwoSolesAbroad

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No one is saying it to you, so I will..
#healingbooks #healingtrauma #narcissisticabuse #leavehim #lethimgo
DDSELFLOVE

DDSELFLOVE

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He just be saying things w/ no regard for anyone💀
#southpark #craigtucker #southparkcraig
Fictional.People.Wh_re69

Fictional.People.Wh_re69

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👀I’m gonna get CANCELED for saying this …
PRESS ONS look so much better than my old acrylics. My acrylics were always bulky and uneven which drove me nuts. My press on nails are even, symmetrical and last me 11-14 days WITHOUT having to use acrylic powder or gel cure them with a light. Oh, and I can re-use them 🤯 I found this brand over 3
Kristen Taha

Kristen Taha

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A serene lake scene at dusk with trees and rocks, overlaid with the title text "THINGS TO AVOID SAYING TO YOUR PARTNER AND WHAT TO SAY INSTEAD," for a relationship advice post.
An image of empty wooden church pews and stained glass windows, overlaid with the phrases "WHAT'S YOUR PROBLEM?" and "instead say... IS EVERYTHING OKAY?" offering relationship advice.
A street at sunset with a car and houses, featuring text overlay "STOP BEING SO SENSITIVE/DRAMATIC" and "instead say... I UNDERSTAND WHY YOU FEEL THAT WAY," providing relationship communication tips.
Things to avoid saying to your partner
and what to say instead #relationships #healthy #toxic #relationshipsolutions #lemon
sophie ⋆ ˚。⋆୨୧˚

sophie ⋆ ˚。⋆୨୧˚

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A laptop on a wooden desk with a drink, featuring text overlay "6 ways to strategically SAY NO at work" and a sticker that reads "Saving is Sexy" upside down.
A woman on a video call screen, displaying three orange text bubbles with phrases for politely declining tasks at work, such as "Unfortunately I'm not able to fit this into my current workload."
A woman typing on a laptop at a desk, with three orange text bubbles overlaying the image, providing more strategic phrases for saying no at work, like suggesting an alternative person or timeline.
🌟 The Power of Saying No at Work 🌟
Do you feel like you’re drowning in tasks because you just can’t say no? 😅 Saying no isn’t about being difficult—it’s about setting boundaries and staying aligned with your priorities. Here's why it matters and how to do it strategically: Why It’s Important: ✔️ Protect Your Time: Overloadin
Alex | Career & Confidence

Alex | Career & Confidence

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How I learned to start saying NO✨
I struggled with this for sooo long. Why does saying no feel like you’re being mean? It’s totally okay to say no and not even have a reason to do so! I started to say no and not over book myself and I feel so much better. Here’s how I started ^ #lemon8partner #wellnessessentials
Eva Hansen

Eva Hansen

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Can you catch yourself saying these?🤍
We loooooove a good reframe! What you say to yourself is important- you’re literally the person who talks to you the most in your life 💭 Try this yourself. Try to catch yourself saying something negative or shameful about your body or what you’re eating. How can you reframe it?💖 #lemon8pa
Molly, RD 🌱

Molly, RD 🌱

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A manga panel shows two characters. One on the left with dark hair and a slight smile, and one on the right with a hat and sharp teeth, exclaiming, "IT'S YOU! I'VE FINALLY FOUND YOU! YOU'RE A DEAD WOMAN!"
I am not ‘Babygirl’ stop saying that
Anytime she says “omg you’re so babygirl ahaha” I calmly remind her about my sins and eternal grievances and somehow the message never gets through….
˚☆💊𝔻𝕖𝕒𝕕𝔹𝕠𝕪𝔻𝕪𝕣🌈𖤐.ᐟ

˚☆💊𝔻𝕖𝕒𝕕𝔹𝕠𝕪𝔻𝕪𝕣🌈𖤐.ᐟ

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Saying, "It's just a fantasy."
What felt real, was a convenient thing every time. At a price of you're self-worth and cost of your own heart break. Which you'll have to pick up the pieces by yourself because you really ain't important. No. Don't be that for them. Show them you are kind and beautifully graceful
May Moua

May Moua

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A pair of blue jeans displays a heartfelt message in white text: 'I'M SHY TO SPEAK ABOUT LOVE, BUT I JUST WANT TO TELL YOU TO BE LOVED BY YOU IS MY JOY YOUR DREAM IS MY LIFE MY DREAM IS TO BE WITH YOU ETERNALLY'.
How to Express Your Love Without Saying a Word👖🔑ℹ️⬇️
Love isn’t just about grand gestures; it’s about finding joy in every moment you share with someone. When your dreams align with theirs, that’s where true connection lives. Real love is quiet, but powerful. It’s in the little things, the support, and the dreams you both build together. Spiritual
RoadToRiches

RoadToRiches

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Over 40, Empty Nest, and Saying YES!
I’m Anna—welcome to my little corner of the internet! I’m in my empty nest, over 40, first-time bride era—and yes, it’s just as wild and wonderful as it sounds. Whether you’re here for beauty tips, confidence boosts, or to follow along as I plan a wedding… I’m so glad you stopped by. Stick a
Shades Of Anna

Shades Of Anna

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What They're Saying About This Dark Romance...
What have people been saying about The Songbird's Shadow? It's dark and gritty, but they love it! . . . . . #thesongbirdsshadow #darkstalkerromance #darkromance #bookreviews #indieauthor
J. F. Page

J. F. Page

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A woman in a light dress holds a sleeping baby near a window. Text overlay reads: 'STOP SAYING THIS to stay at home moms'. Lemon8 branding is in the corner.
A woman gently holds a baby near a window. Text overlays include: '“So when are you going back to work?”' and '“I bet your house is spotless”'. Lemon8 branding is visible.
A woman holds a baby while standing by a window, with toys in a basket nearby. Text overlays state: '“I never/always did do that with my kids & they’re fine”' and '“Don’t loose yourself in motherhood”'.
Just STOP saying this…
✨”So when are you going back to work?”✨ ANSWER: “work is for peasants”. lmao jk jk but bare with me for a second… what if (& this might sound crazy)… WE DON’T want to go back to work cause we’d rather stay home to raise & care for our children knowing they’re always safe?! When &
Dania Toddler Mom & UGC

Dania Toddler Mom & UGC

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Your Father Hears Everything You’re Saying
The enemy will distract you from praying because Prayer lessens his manipulation on you. 🙏 #believer #biblejournaling #christianlemon8 #christiantiktok #christiansoflemon8
Done Living Lukewarm Pod

Done Living Lukewarm Pod

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A handwritten message on lined paper provides spiritual encouragement, advising readers to be still, pray, and trust in God and Christ during hard times. It suggests that challenges indicate their strength against the enemy, and highlights overcoming obstacles with grace and unwavering faith.
God is saying to you today
#lemon8diarychallenge #hardtimes #turntogod #jesus #believer #resisttheenemy #level up #fyp #overcomeobstacles #GRACE
ShireenTX🇺🇸

ShireenTX🇺🇸

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A graphic featuring the quote, "LET'S BE REAL: YOU'RE NOT 'FINE' IF YOU'RE CONSTANTLY STRESSED. IT'S TIME TO MAKE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH A PRIORITY." The image, from @BALANCEDAFFLUENCE on Lemon8, highlights the importance of prioritizing mental well-being over pretending to be okay.
Saying ‘I’m Fine’ is Sabotaging Your Mental Health
Saying “I’m fine” when you’re not is the fastest way to burn out. We live in a world that glorifies being strong and holding it all together, but the truth is, pretending you’re okay when you’re not is a form of self-sabotage. The Unspoken Truth About Saying ‘I’m Fine’: 1. It’s a Def
BalanceAffluenc

BalanceAffluenc

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Stop Saying You’re in Your Lazy Girl Era
For a long time, it felt like I was in my Lazy Girl Era every other week. I’d feel like I was stuck in a rut, I’d spend a few days feeling that way, I’d pull myself out of that rut and be productive for a few days and then I’d inevitably end up feeling like I was back in my lazy girl era and the cy
staci york 💛🍋

staci york 💛🍋

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A couple embraces in a snowy outdoor setting, with the text overlay "10 WAYS TO SAY 'I love you' WITHOUT SAYING IT." The Lemon8 logo and username are visible in the bottom left corner.
A couple in ski goggles looks at each other on a snowy mountain. Speech bubbles display phrases like "Text me when you get home" and "How can I help?" The Lemon8 logo and username are in the bottom left.
A smiling couple, with the woman holding food, is shown. Speech bubbles contain phrases such as "Take my jacket—you'll get cold" and "I'm proud of you." The Lemon8 logo and username are in the bottom left.
10 Ways to Say “I Love You” Without Saying It 💖
Hi friends 🍋 Sometimes actions (or other words) speak louder than “I love you.” Here are some sweet, thoughtful ways to show your love without actually saying it: 1️⃣ “Text me when you get home.” Because nothing says love like wanting them to be safe. 2️⃣ “Did you eat? I’ll make something
Bruna Bueno

Bruna Bueno

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Books I'm saying goodbye to and why
I brought home 7 new books today and said goodbye to my random glitter sparkle girly book shelf ✨ plus some others. I am like super anti Colleen Hoover and that's just who I am. I tried to give the book a chance but I'm sorry... that's just wrong 🙄 anyway, I have a favorite genre and af
☆𝔟

☆𝔟

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A close-up of two people's legs standing on a mossy forest floor, with text overlayed that reads "5 signs you're dating a high value man." The image has a natural, earthy tone.
A close-up of ocean waves reflecting the golden light of a sunset, with text overlayed that reads "he respects your boundaries and preferences." The water shows gentle ripples.
A person being lifted and embraced by another person in a grassy, mountainous landscape under an overcast sky, with text overlayed that reads "he supports your goals and dreams."
5 signs you’re saying a high value man
Dating can be hard, right? Sometimes you wonder if you’re wasting your time with someone who is not worth it. Or maybe you’re not sure if you’re settling for less than you deserve. It never hurts to be reminded of the standard of treatment you should expect from any man in a relationship. Here
gabrielleassaf

gabrielleassaf

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Soooo, what you're saying is you already know?🤣
The response Gen-X parents usually get from their millennial and gen-z children when trying to give them advice.🤣 #foryoupage #genx #iykyk #lol #parenting
Small Talk Jay

Small Talk Jay

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A person takes a mirror selfie, with text overlay "STOP saying 'I did nothing' Here's why SWIPE". The image promotes an article about why this phrase is damaging.
A person sits on sand, with text stating "The phrase 'I did nothing' reinforces the belief that your value as a human is tied solely to your productivity NEWS FLASH It isn't." It also suggests to "Use these phrases Instead."
A person in a cap and sunglasses is shown with a list of alternative phrases for "I did nothing," such as "I was honoring my body's need for rest" and "I was taking a mental health day."
Here’s why you should stop saying “I did nothing”
Here’s why the phrase “I did nothing” is actually damaging your self worth and why you need to kick it to the curb ASAP👇🏻 Constantly telling yourself this reinforces your belief that your value as a human is tied solely to your productivity. And I’m here to tell you that it 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 not 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Meghan Rose

Meghan Rose

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A FEW THINGS BEFORE SAYING “I DO”
While everyone wants to believe they will just “make it work” with their partner because they’re in love, it’s important to set yourselves up for success! Marriage is all about open communication and you want to make sure you’re as on the same page with your partner as you can be! These topi
taylordharrish

taylordharrish

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A person with long, wavy red hair looks at the camera, with sunlight highlighting their face. White text overlay reads: "SAYING THESE HAD HIM OBSESSED WITHIN 24 HOURS."
A black screen displays white text: "Day & night I'm on your mind. You think about me all the time." followed by "I'm obsessed with you" repeated multiple times with emojis.
A black screen displays white text: "You're obsessed with me. You desire to have access to me. You crave my energy." followed by "I'm obsessed with you" repeated multiple times with emojis.
Saying these had him obsessed within 24 hours
#datingadvice101 #witchcraft #witch #obsessed #spirituality
nev

nev

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Things to avoid saying to someone with BPD ‼️
Here are some things to avoid saying and doing with people who have BPD: 1. "You're overreacting." This can feel really invalidating to them. Instead, try to acknowledge their feelings. 2. "Just calm down." Telling someone to calm down can often have the opposite effect. I
🦋Aqua Moon✨

🦋Aqua Moon✨

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An open book is in the foreground, set against a vibrant sunset or sunrise over water with a cloudy sky. The text overlay reads, "If you're a writer/Reader...", inviting engagement with the theme of literature and creative expression.
Say it without saying it👌🏾
#writercore Say it with you’re chest and say it with all creativity you can find and put in here🥰
Read. Repeat. Obsess🎀 (Books)

Read. Repeat. Obsess🎀 (Books)

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Have you ever regretted saying yes to a favor but it was to People, please?
To change that pattern, give yourself a buffer space instead of saying, yes, immediately say “let me get back to you,” Give yourself time to process is this something I want to do authentically out of my heart? Or am I doing it out of a obligation for fear of losing this connection for example i
LeAnne Delgado

LeAnne Delgado

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He keeps saying stuff like that and calls it a jk
My brother’s 14. He hasn’t done anything specifically wrong, but lately, I’ve felt weird being around him. He’ll say stuff like you’re so pretty or how do you look that good? And call it a joke but it makes me grossed out. Plus, he’ll just stare at me silently sometimes, which only makes it worse.
Lisa❤️

Lisa❤️

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Instead of Saying "No"
It’s easy to say “no.” It’s harder to pause and ask, “What is my child really needing right now?” That shift—from reacting to responding—is where connection grows. Instead of just shutting behavior down, I try to guide with clear language, respectful boundaries, and tools that help my child
Razvimoms

Razvimoms

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Saying Goodbye To My Start OverApartment
I said goodbye to my start over apartment this month and it was bittersweet. Since 2018, I had always lived with someone, from my boyfriend to husband and roommates. So this was my first apartment after my divorce. I lived alone and it was my first apartment by myself. Downgraded from a two bedroom
Kayla

Kayla

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STOP saying “boys will be boys” ‼️
Hot take but “boys will boys” is one of the most dangerous phrases in our society, & here’s why… He’s being too rough… “boys will be boys”. He’s mean cause he likes you… “boys will be boys”. He pushed you… “boys will be boys”. He screamed at you… “boys will be boys” He’s catcalling you…
Dania Toddler Mom & UGC

Dania Toddler Mom & UGC

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A hand holds a smartphone displaying a selfie of a young couple making kissy faces, with amusement park lights in the background. The image has text overlay "Saying goodbye to my 3 year relationship."
A young couple embraces on a white sandy beach under a blue sky. The woman wears a green top and white skirt, and the man wears a white shirt and patterned shorts, with houses in the background.
A young couple takes a mirror selfie indoors. The man holds the phone, and the woman smiles beside him, wearing a black lace crop top. The background features ornate decor and patterned curtains.
Saying goodbye to my 3 year relationship 💔
I never thought those words would come out of my mouth, i use lemon8 as personal diary so i will spill a little bit about my feelings and advice for a breakup! We broke up mutually but also a little more on his side, we were very happy but also just had to much going on in our lives that we didn
Juliet

Juliet

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A snowy forest scene with tall evergreen trees and bare deciduous trees, all covered in white snow. Overlaid text asks, "What is one thing you are going to do differently in 2025?" with Lemon8 branding at the bottom.
✨New Year, Saying No✨
Of course we all have our goals at the end of every year for our coming up new year. But I’m curious what we can do differently this new year. Is it consistency? Reaching out to family and friends more? Building a relationship with God? I have ✌🏼: ➡️Saying No more. I want to be able to actually
S T E F F 🤘🏼| SAHM | 🏔️

S T E F F 🤘🏼| SAHM | 🏔️

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you NEED to stop saying these in job interviews..🛑
Standing out and making a good impression on your  interviewer is KEY if you want to move onto the next round🔑 Which is why there are certain comments or thoughts that you should refrain from saying in an interview (even if they're true). Swipe to see examples 👉 #lemon8partner #car
Alex | Career & Confidence

Alex | Career & Confidence

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A light beige marble-textured background featuring three white chevron arrows pointing right in the center, with "lemon8 @trinityraynne" at the bottom left.
A light beige marble-textured background displaying a white paragraph of text about God's message of strength and love, ending with a brown heart emoji. "lemon8 @trinityraynne" is in the bottom left.
God is saying to you today…
never forget your worth is found in Him, not the world, not your circumstances, not your failures. rest in Him & remember how much He loves you 🥹🫶🏻 #christiangirl #christianlifestyle #christianwomen #christianmotivation #christiangirlies #christiancontentcreator #jesusgirl #jesus
Trinity Raynne

Trinity Raynne

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