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Fear of continuing with the wrong study method

The fear of continuing the wrong study method is not only that your grades will not improve.

What's even more scary is that your child will start to think, "It's no use doing it."

"I can't even do it myself anyway."

There was a student who said that. The test is in the 40s every time.

But the child didn't give up from the beginning.

I was doing my school homework and studying for tests properly.

It's not that I didn't do my best.

However, the method was off and the results of my hard work did not come out.

I had lost my confidence because of the accumulated experience of "no results even if I tried."

If you change your study method, you will be able to solve more problems.

In two weeks, the expression changed to "Can you...?."

A month later, I was well above average on the test.

I said to myself, "If you do it, you can do it."

If you continue with the wrong study method, "It doesn't improve even if you try" will be repeated.

Then I think, "I can't do it anyway."

With this assumption in mind, you will not have the energy to try new methods.

I'm getting into a vicious cycle.

But conversely, if you can correct the way and experience "I did it!" even once, you will improve at once from here.

There is no child who cannot study.

I just didn't know how to study.

If you do it the right way, you can feel "Oh, it's growing" as early as 1-2 days.

It is important to correct your study method to protect your child's confidence.

I have lost confidence and motivation.

In such cases, let them experience "you can do it" in the shortest possible way.

This may be what you need most right now.

How to correct the study method is also introduced in detail in the free course of other posts and profile.

It's not a matter of talent or taste, it's just the wrong way.

Please continue to believe in your child's potential.

4/19 Edited to

... Read more「勉強しました」と言えるくらい頑張っているのに結果が出ない時、いちばん怖いのは点数そのものよりも、本人の中に「どうせやっても無駄」という思い込みが育ってしまうことだと感じます。私が見てきた子でも、毎回きちんと机に向かっているのに伸びない→自信が削られる→さらに集中できない、という悪循環に入っていました。 じゃあ「間違った勉強法」って具体的に何がズレているの?と聞かれることが多いので、よくある例を挙げます。 1) ノートがきれい=勉強した気になっている まとめ直しに時間を使いすぎると、脳は「整理した」で満足してしまい、実際に解けるようになる練習(アウトプット)が不足しがちです。 2) ずっと読む・見るだけ(インプット偏重) 教科書を何回も読んで安心するタイプ。テストで必要なのは「思い出して書く・解く」力なので、読むだけだと点に直結しにくいです。 3) 間違い直しが「答え写し」になっている 間違えた問題を赤で写して終わり、だと次も同じミスをします。大事なのは「どこで判断を間違えたか」を言葉にして、同じ条件なら次はこうする、と再現できる形にすること。 ここを正していく時に、私がいちばん意識するのは、OCRにもある通り「できた!」を早く体験させて“好循環”を作ることです。おすすめの小さな設計は次の3つです。 ・範囲を極小にする(10〜15分で完走できる量) 例えば数学なら「例題1つ→類題2つ」だけ。英語なら「単語10個+小テスト」。短時間で達成できると成功体験が残ります。 ・必ずアウトプットで終える 最後にミニテストを入れて、「解けた/解けなかった」を本人が確認できる形にします。ここが「やればできる」を実感するポイントです。 ・1回で完璧を狙わず、翌日に“同じ形式”をもう一度 翌日に同じタイプを解いて正解できると、たまたまではなく「伸びてる」が実感になります。 もし今、お子さんがやる気や自信を失いかけているなら、「勉強時間を増やす」より先に、勉強法を点検して“悪循環”を止めるのが近道です。努力を否定せず、やり方だけを一緒に調整して、「できた!」を積み上げていく。これだけで表情が変わる瞬間を、何度も見てきました。

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