Feeling ugly

So many days I wake up feeling depressed cuz I dont think im pretty. I get up, do my hair, put on makeup, lashes and everything, look in the mirror and just cry. I take thousands of selfies and never post them cuz I critique every flaw I have, my weight,the marks on my face, my lips, eyes, etc. I look at social media and all the beautiful girls and wonder why I cant be one? 😢 Im 39, am I too old to be feeling like this?#lemon8diarychallenge #depression #lowselfessteem

2024/8/9 Edited to

... Read moreFeeling ugly can be a common struggle, especially in a world dominated by social media where unrealistic beauty standards are often portrayed. It's important to recognize that these feelings are not just personal but also influenced by societal pressures. Many individuals face similar challenges, regardless of their age. At 39, it's crucial to remember that beauty is not defined by age or societal expectations but rather by self-acceptance and confidence. To combat feelings of inadequacy, consider surrounding yourself with supportive communities that promote body positivity and self-love. Engaging in activities that boost your confidence, like joining groups focused on self-improvement or wellness, can make a significant difference. Positive affirmations and mindful practices such as journaling about what you love about yourself can also help shift your perspective. Remember, every person has their own unique qualities that make them beautiful. Embrace your individuality and celebrate your journey toward self-acceptance, knowing that you are not alone in these feelings.

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Kristi Mahtapen

we are always too harsh on ourselves, no matter our age. I'm 49 and am still down on myself for the same things. try being more mindful of when you talk down to yourself and relaxe the negative with positive thoughts. you are a beautiful woman. with such stunning features.

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You are absolutely beautiful. Either you need a stronger prescription eyeglasses 👓 or maybe whatever is at the center of what you’re feeling is something you buried inside that needs some attention and healing? But you’re definitely shining bright in the looks department ❤️🍋

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