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Because "wounds" is part of the splendor of growing up. 🩹❤️‍🩹

Beautiful wounds because "wounds" is part of the beauty of growing up. 🕯️

On the day when we stand strong, have crystallized thoughts, and seem to manage life perfectly, many may forget that...To this point, we've all been "losers" on the life field before.

Mistakes are the most expensive classrooms.

No one was born with perfection. Before we were smart, we were "foolish." Before we were tough, we were "weak" to the end. We were all doing things that didn't make sense, made mistakes, and got lost in ways that we looked back and wanted to correct. But that's not embarrassing, because all of that is the process of "learning." The basic rules of life are that every precious lesson is always exchanged with pain. A deep-seated wound is not a mark of failure, but a "trace of growth" that says we've passed the test.

Reason for a dark day in the world

Sometimes we can accidentally use our own ruler to measure other people's lives and quickly conclude that what they do is irrational or unwise, but in reality, all humans always drive their lives for the "best" reasons at the time.

Under the limits of his knowledge, experience, and the trauma he then had, what he decided might be the only solution he saw. Even today we see it as a mistake, but for him that day it was to try to survive to the best of his ability.

Have mercy on him to heal us.

Human nature is not different. We all have a fragile side and need recognition. The practice of looking at others with understanding and "kindness" is not only useful to make us good in anyone's eyes, but it is to polish our own hearts more gently.

When we give up judging others harshly, our hearts become more justified, and the turmoil of our hearts is replaced by peace.

Conclusion:

Embrace your past wounds and pass that understanding on to other human friends, because in the end, we are all "students" in life who are learning to grow together.

Writer Rawroot.

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