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I thought life with kids wouldn't be hard, but not at all.

I thought life with kids wouldn't be hard, but not at all.

Having a baby makes us like a noose.

# A noose that will never be solved

Life after having a child changed in a harder way, because we would worry about you in everything, worry about it, go around, don't dare to leave you, never warm up when you leave you with anyone.

Believe it or not, being a mother, we can stress even about you not shit, you don't eat, you really stress everything.

The bigger you get, the more stress you get, because every moment of your life has something to learn and fix all the time.

As if there is love, there will be suffering!!

The suffering caused by our hearts is too much love, too much possessive, so the heart is suffering. This is the heart of a mother. # Understood deeply as a mother. 🥹🤍

# This life is really devoted to children

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