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How to love yourself

1. Life is good and bad - and it's worth both.

Good story makes you smile

Damn things make you grow up.

Everything you see doesn't come to hurt, but it teaches you to understand life, understand yourself more.

2. Choose where the power does not suck you until dry.

Some people are already tired.

Some already, the heart is open.

Choose where it fills the fire, not you.

3. Good sleep = good life

Don't insult sleeping.

Try the 3-2-1 rule.

- Three hours before bed. Stop it.

- Two hours before bed. Out of work.

- One hour before bed. Stop the screen.

You will know that life when waking up is different.

4. Move yourself. Don't be good. Just move.

No fitness, no marathon.

Take a walk, stretch, sweep the house.

The body will secrete happiness without having to chase it.

5. Consistently win perfection

Don't do your best every day.

Just do "some" better than never.

Don't wait for the ready date, because that day doesn't exist.

6.Healthy is not a matter, there is time - but it is choice.

Better to choose

Choose to sleep faster.

Choose more moves.

A good life. It gradually builds on small choices every day.

7. The relationship reflects how much you see yourself.

If you really love yourself

You will not endure the place that hurts your heart.

You will choose and dare to walk out.

8. Love yourself, not change yourself until you don't have left.

If forced, try to be another person to make someone love.

That one's not a safe space anymore.

Good love. It doesn't have to trade for identity.

9. If you can't cut the poison, you can retreat first.

Don't quarrel.

Don't curse.

Gradually reduce the range.

And speak your feelings directly without blaming anyone.

"I feel this way." That's enough.

10. Good money = still heart

Have a reserve = don't be afraid of the world so much

Know revenue, expenditure

Emergency money protection

Conscious investment

And stop shopping because of lonely emotions

Freedom does not come from rich alone.

But from controlling your life.

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