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Break up and should be friends?

Friends think we're still friends.# Ex girlfriendAll right?

Private sees "no fixed answer."

If breaking up like

✅. Really understand.

✅ Not expecting, not hoping for a return.

✅, not hurt, not possessive, not checking each other's lives.

Be friends. Maybe get a good friendship back.

But if you break up,

❌. Still love each other.

❌ Still hope he comes back.

❌ still hurts every time he sees someone new. ✨

Don't make friends. Just rest.

Some relationships.

Not being in touch is the most respect for your heart. 😙

Can't be a friend. Doesn't mean redneck.

It means we already love ourselves.

# Love, relationships

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