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Want to understand yourself more? Read this book.

Books that have been talked about a lot lately! What Happened to You?

Works by Oprah Winfrey & Dr. Bruce Perry

This book doesn't just say where we're 'broken'.

But it helps us understand 'why' we are us today...

It is a change from blaming yourself.

It's a hug to comfort yourself with understanding. 🤍

Who likes to blame themselves or is looking for answers for themselves?

If you want to understand yourself more, you have to arrange this book immediately! 🎬🎧📖

# Read according to lemon8 # Book review # Psychology book # whathappendtoyou # Book recommendation

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... Read moreการเข้าใจตัวเองไม่ใช่เรื่องง่าย โดยเฉพาะเมื่อเรามักจะโทษตัวเองในอดีตที่ผ่านมาหรือความผิดพลาดที่เกิดขึ้น หนังสือ What Happened to You? ของ Oprah Winfrey และ Dr. Bruce Perry ได้ให้แนวคิดที่ลึกซึ้งว่า ทุกสิ่งที่เราประสบพบเจอในชีวิต ล้วนมีผลกระทบต่อการที่เราเป็นเราในวันนี้ และไม่ใช่ความผิดของเราเสมอไป เล่มนี้ให้คำตอบอย่างละเอียดว่า "ทำไม" เราถึงคิดและรู้สึกแบบนั้น ซึ่งช่วยเปลี่ยนมุมมองจากการตำหนิ เป็นการยอมรับและรักตัวเองมากขึ้น จากประสบการณ์ตรงของหลายคนที่อ่านหนังสือเล่มนี้ พวกเขารู้สึกว่าการเข้าใจรากฐานของอารมณ์และความคิดช่วยให้การเยียวยาจิตใจเป็นไปได้จริง ๆ คำว่า "แค่เข้าใจก็ไม่เจ็บแล้ว" จากเนื้อหาในหนังสือ สะท้อนถึงพลังของความเข้าใจในกระบวนการเยียวยาตัวเอง ไม่ว่าจะเป็นความรู้สึกผิด หรือความพังที่เกิดขึ้นในใจ ทุกคนสามารถเปลี่ยนแปลงและก้าวผ่านอุปสรรคเหล่านั้นได้ด้วยความเห็นอกเห็นใจตัวเอง นอกจากนี้หนังสือยังเหมาะสำหรับคนที่ชอบทบทวนใจตัวเองหรือคนที่กำลังค้นหาคำตอบในใจ เพราะมันไม่ได้แค่ให้ความรู้ แต่ยังเป็นเหมือนเพื่อนคู่คิดที่ช่วยโอบกอดจิตใจของเราในวันที่รู้สึกอ่อนแอ สำหรับใครสนใจ แนะนำให้หาโอกาสอ่านหนังสือเล่มนี้สักครั้ง ไม่เพียงแต่เนื้อหาจะลึกซึ้ง แต่ยังมีประโยชน์สำหรับการพัฒนาตัวเองและความเข้าใจในความสัมพันธ์กับคนรอบข้างอีกด้วย

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