I don't want to show off how cute my mother's child is. ♥️🐿

✨ Reparenting is the sacred act of becoming the caregiver your younger self needed. You don’t need to wait for someone else to rescue you— You are the safe space now. This is how we heal the inner child. This is how we shift identity from survival to self-love. This is how we break the cycle

I hate the ideology that all women aspire to motherhood and being a wife, but in 2025 I thought it was understood that a lot of women are not chasing that. I’ve been saying this for years and I don’t see me changing my mind on this ever ! #blackgirllemon8 #lemon8contest #AskLemon8

The mother wound is simultaneously the most common thing I see in my work and the least commonly talked about. Because how do you grieve someone who is still alive? How do you name a pain that doesn’t always have an obvious story attached to it? How do you explain that your mom “wasn’t that bad

1️⃣Fair Play by Eve Rodsky This book is a revolutionary guide for couples looking to rebalance the domestic workload. Rodsky presents a system that helps partners divide household tasks and responsibilities more equitably, aiming to reduce stress and foster fairness in relationships. The book in

Hello #GloGetter ! In my last post, I touched on signs that you may be neglecting your inner child. If you have yet to read that, I would give it a peek before diving into this post! You may already have a feeling that you have been neglecting your inner child, but I go into depth on how the n

Psychology Series: Part 24 🕯️ Do not mistake "Innocence" for weakness. In Dark Psychology, Innocence is a Weapon. The "Bambi Effect" (or Doe Eyes) is the ability to project vulnerability to disarm your target. When a man thinks you are "harmless", he lowers his logical def

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Some grief doesn't begin when someone leaves. Sometimes it begins when you become a mother and realize how much of it you're learning on your own. You find yourself showing up in ways nobody showed up for you. Creating safety you never received. Giving comfort you once needed. Breaking

Becoming parents can really broaden our horizons to many new topics & bring to light things we hadn’t noticed before. if you’re anything like me, you’re constantly thinking “how can I be a better mom to my kids, how can we be better parents”. We want what’s best for our children, to nurtu

No.1) God shows me how to practice patience in everyday moments. A mess is just a mess. Playing the same board game for the 100th time will not kill me. Taking a breath before responding can make the difference between a teachable love-filled moment and full-blown meltdowns. No.2) God shows me

Whenever I hear of comparison, I instantly think of the little ones in kindergarten who always want to be the best at something. They would go to extreme lengths to prove why they are better than you. 👶👧 I’ve listened to two five-year-olds argue to prove to the other why they had the best hairst

Some daughters learned how to comfort before they learned how to be comforted. They learned how to manage emotions. Keep the peace. Carry responsibilities that were never theirs. And for a long time, it can feel normal. Until one day you realize: you spent part of your childhood taking care of s

How to be confident? I think some of us really have to hit rock bottom in life to ACTUALLY pray to God and be like - “God idk who I am anymore, I need YOU to show me who I am.” This is usually when you are basing your identity off other ppl or what they think of you. Being confident is a ch

I’ve been thinking a lot about boundaries—not just the RA kind that protect my energy, but the deep, inherited ones… the ones you start building when you’re healing as an adult child with CPTSD and realize you’re allowed to feel safe. This image of “little Jamie” and “big Jamie” is more than jus