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You don't have to be proud of anyone... just happy with your life. 🤍

To... Phoebus

Ma Mie wants Phoebus to grow up.

As yourself

You don't have to be the best.

You don't have to be number one.

Not to live to be anyone's pride.

If you have a dream,

Follow your dreams.

If one day that dream changes,

You can change it. It's okay.

You don't need to know from today that

What do you want to grow up?

Or where will life go?

Gradually grow up.

Gradually learn

Gradually get to know yourself.

Ma Mie doesn't want to raise Fibus.

To be the perfect kid.

Ma Mee just wants children

A man with a good heart.

Know love other people

And know yourself too

Be considerate with others

But you have to protect yourself.

Wrong, accept

Miss, learn

Tired, rested

Can't say it

You don't have to be strong all the time.

And there's one thing.

That Ma Mie wants Phi Bus to remember from today

You don't have to grow up.

To spend your whole life in return for Ma Mee.

Ma Mee never thought

Raising a child is creating a debt of gratitude for the child.

The day Ma Mee carried the baby

The day Ma Mie took care of the child

The day Ma Mie did everything for the child

Ma Mee made because of love.

Not because one day

You have to repay Ma Mee.

You have your life.

Ma Mee has a life of Ma Mee.

One day, if you grow up,

Have your own dreams.

There's a job, baby.

There are people who love

Have your own family.

Or live the way you want to.

Go live your life to the fullest.

Don't choose anything

Just because of fear that Ma Mie will regret

Don't feel guilty.

That one day you will have your own world.

And don't have to come back to Ma Mee

Because the word "merit"

If you come back,

Ma Mie wants the child to come back because I miss you.

Come back because I want to eat together

Come back because there is a story to tell

Come back because I want to hug Ma Mie

Or some day.

There's no reason at all.

Just want to meet back

That's enough, son.

For Ma Mee

Love shouldn't have invoices.

And childhood.

Well, it shouldn't owe anyone a favor.

Ma Mie raised the baby.

It's not for you to stay with Ma Mie for the rest of your life.

But Ma Mie wants to raise children

Let one day the baby can go out and live.

Confidently.

And know how valuable you are.

Ma Mie wants to see Fibus.

Went out to meet the wider world

Have tried new things.

Do what you like

Meet a lot of people.

Laughing until the stomach is stiff

There's a lot to tell.

And of course,

Along the way, there may be an unpleasant day.

If you meet a kind person

Keep a good relationship.

If you meet a mean person

Well, learn from it.

But don't give in to anyone's heartlessness.

Make you mean.

If wrong

Well, admit it.

If you make a mistake

Well, learn.

If tired,

Well, rest.

Life doesn't have to be perfect.

Just a conscious child

Know what's good for yourself

Know what should not be allowed

And know, live happily.

Ma Mie didn't want Phoebus.

Is "the best baby."

Ma Mie wants to see Fibus.

Is the happiest Phoebus.

Don't be better than anyone.

There doesn't have to be more than anyone.

Not to succeed.

To bring to Ma Mie proud

Just you wake up every day.

Then felt

"We like our lives."

Ma Mee is proud.

Because of the pride of Ma Mee

Never on how far you can go.

But that

Along the way.

You're still a man with a good heart.

And still happy with your own life?

One day, Phoebus may grow taller than Ma Mee.

May have a better story than Ma Mee

There may be a lot to learn from you.

Ma Mie wants to see that day.

Want to see Ma Mee's little kid?

Gradually grow up.

Have your own ideas

Have your own world

And have the life you choose.

Because of the growth of children.

Doesn't mean you're getting away from Ma Mee.

But it means

The love that Ma has always given children

Growing with children

And no matter how big Phoebus is,

If one day you want to go home,

Can always come back

If you want to tell a good story,

Ma Mie will listen

If you want to complain,

Ma Mee listened.

If you want to laugh

Ma Mie will laugh too.

If wanting to hug

Ma Mie will hug

Don't be a good person before you can come back.

You don't have to succeed before you can come back.

And don't have anything to come to me

Returning to be the same Phi Bus of Ma Mee is enough.

Grow independently

Go fully as yourself

Choose the life you want to spend.

Love the person you want to love

Do things that make the heart happy.

And if one day you look back on your life,

And can say with full heart that

"This is the life we choose ourselves.

And we're happy about it. "

For Ma Mee

That would be the best pride.

Don't be proud of anyone.

Just grow to be proud of yourself.

Love the most

Love without wanting anything in return

Love from Ma Mee 🤍

# To baby # Save to children # From Ma Mee to Phi Bus # Mother and son # Mother's love# Raising a child with love # Growing up freely # Growing up in your own way # No return of gratitude # Happiness of our children # Our family # Memoirs # Mother's Tale # Mammy Phoebus # Phob # phb _ us # ourlittlestory

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