5 A lover's "restricted" area...That if advanced...

5 A lover's "restricted" area...That if you advance, love breaks faster than you think! 🚫💔

Getting the keys to his house...

It doesn't mean we have the right to "ransack" or "organize" every room of his life.

Many couples almost died, but they finally quit.

Not because of all love...But because the other side is trying to be the "master of life."

Go into judgment and try to change the unchangeable.

Here are five danger zones that, if you really love him (and love yourself), "Don't do it":

1. His parents: Don't try to "cut down the big tree." 🌳

Even though his parents look stupid in your eyes...Remember, that's his blood.

You blame his parents for one word. It hurts 10 more than you insult him.

Don't try to change old wood. Don't try to teach adults.

Our job is "smile, bow, greet," not "criticize."

2. His brothers: Do not go down to play in the "blood battle." 🥊

His brothers quarreled and died. They'll be fine.

If you jump into the factory and curse his brothers...The day they're good, you'll become a "rotten dog."

Brothers and sisters...Let them clear each other. We'll just sit and watch.

3. Koettika: It's not a circus you have to go play with. 🎪

Some relatives are bad, some relatives are annoying...I know!

But to declare war with his cousin is to bring himself into the thorn grove.

Going very busy = wrong, putting power = being irritated

Our job is to be on our girlfriend's side, not to fight his genealogy.

4. His close friend: Don't try to "erase history." 🍻

A friend is a life witness on a day without you.

Forbidding him from meeting his friends or being superior to his friends.

Is that you are squeezing him to choose...And be careful, maybe he chooses an "old world" that's more comfortable than you.

5.His past: Don't do an "undertaker" career. ⚰️

Stop digging! Stop asking! Stop comparing!

The old one is a ghost...Why are you going to fight with ghosts?

The more you dig up the old story, the more you look "unconvinced" and "annoying."

Make him feel that "the present with you" is so good that he forgets the past.

Clear summary:

Love is to be a "Safe Zone" (safe space).

Not being a "Control Zone" (control area).

If you love him...Honor his personal space, too.

Because of the thin line between "good intentions" and "obtrusive."..It's a little easy to lack!

# Love must be spaced # Don't break the line # Relationship # Love lesson # Heal heart# Remind people with a partner

"Blood is thicker than water...Don't try to take 'saliva' against his' bloodline '. Lost since thought! "

"His brothers quarreled...Don't interfere! Because when they are good, we will immediately become good-mouthed 'outsiders'. "

"The past is' ghost, '👻 the present is' us'...Don't dig up ghosts to fool yourself. If you want to be happy, focus on 'now'. "

"Don't take care of his world...Till he felt that having us, it made him 'suffocate' "

"Love him...Don't go against the 'bonded' thing he came before us (parents, friends, ex)...We come later. Do your best! "

* "Be a 'soul mate', not a 'soul mate'....Which line should stand? Which line should retreat? Must know! "

"Life partner...Must be a 'safe area'.

Not an 'intruder' in his personal world. "