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"The responsibility of the eldest in the family."

⭐ time to put your future first!!

Born, aged, hurt, dead is the truth of the world.

The cycle of the human world, when children, parents take care of us, when you are old, we take care of you instead of you. ♥️

* There is no doubt between my future and caring for my sick father, and I chose to leave my job to take care of my sick father without hesitation 😊 (rupture or stroke "is very sick in older people, be careful).

* No one cares as well as children and encouragement is the most important *

"Thank you for your parents. Life will not fall. Believe me.

And the merit made will support life with happiness and prosperity 😊

🙏 Amen. 🥰

2025/12/25 Edited to

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