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Yes the narcissist will see the target as a personal slave to fetch and carry for them all day long, everyday. The narcissist also employs sleep deprivation tactics (making lots of noise, early in the morning or late at night, starting arguments before bedtime or in the middle of the night) in order to keep the target completely exhausted and depleted, and this is just another measure that helps keep the target under the narcissists control. All very insidious all very damaging to mind, body and soul.

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... Read moreNarcissistic abuse is a severe psychological as well as emotional trauma that manifests in various damaging behaviors, including manipulation and control tactics. Victims often experience chronic fatigue, as narcissists drain their energy akin to vampires. This dynamic creates a cycle of dependency that can be challenging to escape. It's essential to recognize common tactics employed by narcissists, such as gaslighting, sleep deprivation, and emotional blackmail, which significantly impact a person's mental and physical health. While the relationship may initially seem rewarding, the ongoing demands and lack of reciprocity lead to exhaustion. Victims might feel they are walking on eggshells, constantly attempting to placate the narcissist's needs while disregarding their own. Establishing boundaries and seeking support from mental health professionals can help victims regain control over their lives and break free from the cycle of abuse. Understanding these patterns is the first step toward healing and empowerment.

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Oh man this so on point. Thank you ❤️

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Escaping gaslighting and narcissistic behaviors was one of the hardest journeys I have ever been on. It takes a lot of working on yourself because of the damage they do to your brain

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