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ðŸĨēStill love... but enough. Why?

Love is sometimes not just "love enough" and then can be together.

â€Ē If you have to try to be on one side

â€Ē If hurt by both words or feelings

â€Ē If trust is gone

â€Ē Or even... if he knew he wouldn't choose us.

Even if you still love, you have to give up.

Because of the love that makes us more miserable than happy.

It's not love that should stay.

Sometimes "being enough" is not because of losing love.

But it's because we're starting to love ourselves more.

What about you? Have you ever had enough to love?

Or have you ever loved someone until you forgot to love yourself?

# Love experience # Love, relationships # Relationship narrative

2025/8/4 Edited to

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If you’ve been training but still not seeing those gains, here’s what might be holding you back: 1ïļâƒĢ You’re not eating enough – Your glutes need fuel to grow! Make sure you’re getting enough protein + overall calories to support muscle growth. 2ïļâƒĢ You’re not lifting heavy enough – If you’ve b
Erin 🌚âœĻ| Fitness Coach

Erin 🌚âœĻ| Fitness Coach

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A close-up of hands holding a paper with the title 'PARENTS! Reading to Your Child: Why It's Beneficial (But Not Enough)'. A globe is partially visible, and text prompts to 'READ CAPTION & SWIPE'.
A mother and two children smiling while looking at a book. Text overlay states 'WHAT YOU CAN DO: Combine Reading Aloud with Explicit Phonics Practice'.
A child's hands holding an open book, with an adult's hands nearby. Text overlay reads 'WHAT YOU CAN DO: Make Reading Interactive: Point out words, ask questions, and engage them'.
Reading to Your Child: Beneficial But Not Enough!
We’ve all heard that reading to your child is important—and it is! It builds vocabulary, fosters a love for books, and strengthens your bond. But here’s the truth: simply reading to your child won’t automatically teach them how to read. 🧠 ðŸ’Ą Why Reading to Them Isn’t Enough: Learning to read req
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Dana l Literacy Tutor & Coach

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You are enough.
“You are enough,” a short and powerful statement. And honestly it’s one that I struggle embracing. I’m not sure if it’s the perfectionist in me or what but I never feel like I’m enough. I don’t feel enough when it comes to relationships. And I realized over time it’s not about whether or not I
Hannah Carlson

Hannah Carlson

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why you’re just not pretty enough
hehehe ðŸŒļ - this is your reminder to be kinder to yourself , you’re that girl ! #shareyourthoughts #unaesthetic #embracevulnerability #yourenough #thatgirl #beautytips
Tiana Trice

Tiana Trice

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