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5 male traits that women can't see.⁉️

1️⃣ clear when talking, but never given status.

2️⃣ say hello every day but never make a serious appointment

3️⃣ Gone quietly and came back to do the same.

4️⃣ talk about the future, but never the deadline.

5️⃣ makes you feel special, but never chooses you.

Some people don't feel it.

He just doesn't think about choosing 🤍

# Love story # Trick love # Man # Women need to know # Relationship

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