How to Have a Friend This Long? (Gang Review 3 Years & 8 Years)

Have you ever wondered why some friendships have been with us for so long, but others have gradually disappeared over time? 🤔

Today I want to share the positive energy and review my friendship that has been together for 3 years and for 8 years! I've been through a lot of things together, but why still love and cohesiveness? 3 iron rules that we share 👇

✨ 1. Choose a "diligent" person, Paganto.

Having a hard-working friend pulls us to be diligent. When you are lazy, there will be people who will keep us awake, not letting us get caught up in teaching, going to work or looking for new ideas.

✨ 2. What is said directly (but pampered)

The end of the time of gossip behind the back or clamoring is uncomfortable. Our gang is that if there is something uncomfortable or miscomments, will face to speak directly, clear to the end there, do not keep thinking a little, so friendship is no crack.

✨ 3. No money, help each other. No advantage.

The big money thing, but for us is pure sincerity, when anyone shocks, who doesn't spin in time, we are ready to support as much as you can, borrow is loan, return is return, and the important thing is "no advantage," whether it's about money, feelings, or work. Everyone shares and helps with heart.

🟢 Advantages (dating and life)

Life has only positive energy: When a friend is diligent, it will pull us to follow the students, work, make money, not sink.

100% Comfort Don't Be Paranoid: Frankly speaking, we don't have to guess or worry about being gossiped behind our backs. It's very safe for the mind.

Reliable in times of crisis: a certain degree of ease with money, knowing that if in real trouble, they will help each other without exploitation or abuse.

Implicit screening of bad people: Our friends' standards are already good, making us look at broken people and not risk toxic relationships.

🔴 Disadvantages (to watch out and cope with)

Sometimes there can be "words that are the same as both people, sometimes when they speak in a bad mood or a little strong words, they can make it easy for Fel or Noykan (they have to practice straight speaking skills).

Unconscious Pressure: When you see a friend who is very diligent or progressing fast, maybe you can secretly compare it to yourself to stress (you have to remind yourself that you grow up at your own pace).

Little friends, but emphasize quality, choosing people and selecting people like this will make us have a few real close friends, some of whom may be lonely if they do not love solitude, but can say that "there are few quality friends, better than many friends, but cannot find sincerity."

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