4 "Killer" dangerous behavior that will gradually bite love. | Gallery posted by โลกจิตฯวิทยา

Love fades because of "time" or because of the "verbal" we use? 💬💔

Have you ever quarreled about a small thing, but escalated into a big deal?

Or perhaps not quarreling, but feelings of love gradually diminish daily...

In couples behavioral psychology, these are not coincidences.

Dr. John Gottman, a global researcher, discovered

"4 Dangerous Behavior" (The Four Horsemen), which is like a "killer" who will slowly devour love.

To die down slowly.

Check if your partner has these four?

(See illustration in the album)

👉: Criticism is a habit instead of talking about problems.

🙄 Contempt: This is the most serious! To say irony, fill in your eyes, or mock is to destroy your respect for each other.

🛡️ Defensiveness: Never apologize, only the word "but.".."Or throw the blame back.

🧱 Stonewalling: When you fight and walk away, leave the other person crazy alone.

💡 The good news is...It solves!

Lasting love is not a fight at all.

But we are aware that we are using emotions and quickly switching to understanding.

Let's change from a woven curse to a "thank you."

From walking away to "asking for time out."

Start adjusting a little per day...So that the person we love is always the same person who is cute for us. 🤍

Mimi loves everyone ^ _ _ _ ^