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Growing up, I knew... sharing my break-up experience with my boyfriend at 30.

# Grow up and know that # Fan review # Ex girlfriend review # Love experience

- Many people see posts showing off gifts from their girlfriends earlier, right? They lied to us..

- Our background is that we had a girlfriend, then a child, about 20 or so, were friends in the group before, feeling that our habits were not very mature when we broke up because the goals were not matched, and then we were almost depressed.

After that, I didn't have a girlfriend again. I felt that our wall was very high since the previous love made us quite blocked, didn't find, didn't talk to anyone in particular, together with studying and working hard enough.

- It's been almost two years since I moved to another school.

This person is one of the few people that at first we didn't care about anything, but it can be seen that this person seems to talk, seems particularly interested in helping us until at one point we started to open up to him, where he used to say that he doesn't have a girlfriend, but after talking for a while, he came to know that he already has a girlfriend. At that time we still don't like him, so we just don't talk at all because I don't like this kind of thing very much.

- Until the middle of last year, when he came in again and said that he really broke up with his ex, did not contact each other, did not love the old person, so we tried to talk to each other, in the meantime, learned the habits, he was calm, cute, loved family, good, but the weakness was not very confident in himself, not really knowing what he thought. If other people said something, it was easy to lose confidence.

- He asked to be a girlfriend late last year, but we were 50% thinking about what was born, but then it was really good to be a girlfriend early this year.

Used to watch the doctor when everything was going well, said that from the end of the year to this year, the 4-5 months will be tricked into love, love is not true, we kept in mind, but still do not believe, try first

- About his ex-girlfriend, we were not interested in knowing, but someone told himself a little bit about him until we knew that he was a junior who had already married and had children, but like to split up with his ex-husband (but didn't know the real status, but this brother told us later that he had just known that he was married at the end, but at first didn't believe and never asked, didn't know whether to divorce or not, didn't know that he had children. When he knew from us, it was a bit like a shock, which then made us, uh, that after a year, why to buy)

- All along, we repeat that we don't like liars. Don't do it anymore. Don't forgive if you catch them. Don't talk anymore, right? They always say no.

About a week ago, we had a sign that never shone on anyone, shining on people around him.

When we looked at that day, we saw a picture of his family. On that day, we saw him taking pictures with his ex-girlfriend and parents. On the day he told us that he had broken up for almost half a year, and at that time we talked a lot.

- We and he have adapted a lot, and they always talk about the future with us, talking about how many children Abak has, applying to be a son-in-law, it makes us hope to go far.

When I saw the picture, I was very shocked. I called to clear it. At first, I didn't tell me when the picture was long ago. But when I said that if I didn't say I would not talk again, I said that I still talked. When I asked what position, I said I didn't love it. Just my brothers and sisters told me to show me the chat.

Ask why he said that he is still waiting for a woman. We are confused. What are you waiting for? Waiting for him to divorce? Just ask if he is married. Really not dare.

- And then we said in our hearts that we were sorry, and they typed in, and they accepted all the responsibility and apologized for everything.

After that, we have to meet almost every day. There are things to rely on. Ask if you hate it. We don't hate anyone very easily. But now it's very difficult to work together. We still want to be brothers and sisters with him. I want to discuss things, but I know it takes time.

- When we type it, we type it emotionally. It's like he makes us waste time meeting someone who really loves to go together, sincerely for us. We give him many opportunities. But in our hearts, after they type back to say sorry for everything and will try to keep the person working together and tell the person the truth (we don't know what he said to the other person but think that he never told us), we think that we probably won't go back to 80-90%, but there are still 10-20% who want him to reconcile, who try to understand how he just quit. I already have this feeling.

- Try to do a lot of things with friends, find something to do, still have to work, just go to see the horoscope with the same doctor, said that the love will be like this again until good for a while, but will be bad at the end of the year, can see 2 things, whether to reconcile with the new person with a story

Try to think that if we are friends or other people look, however, you have to think that you do not go back, but still can not accept it. Scared in your heart that if he reconciles, he still wants to go back. 🙏

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... Read moreประสบการณ์เลิกกับแฟนตอนอายุ 30 นั้นสะท้อนถึงความซับซ้อนของความสัมพันธ์และความไม่แน่นอนในชีวิตคู่ บ่อยครั้งเราต้องเผชิญกับความจริงที่เจ็บปวดจากการโกหก หรือการไม่ชัดเจนในสถานะความสัมพันธ์ ซึ่งเรื่องนี้ทำให้เกิดความรู้สึกเสียใจและปวดใจอย่างลึกซึ้ง สิ่งหนึ่งที่สำคัญคือการให้เวลาตัวเองได้ฟื้นฟูอารมณ์ และค่อยๆ เรียนรู้ที่จะยอมรับอดีตเพื่อไม่ให้มันมาขัดขวางความสุขในอนาคต จากประสบการณ์ที่ได้แชร์ ผู้เขียนได้ผ่านช่วงเวลาที่พยายามเปิดใจให้โอกาสอีกฝ่าย แม้จะเต็มไปด้วยความไม่แน่ใจและความเจ็บปวดจากความไม่ซื่อสัตย์ นี่คือบทเรียนสำคัญว่าการรักษาความเชื่อใจในความรักคือพื้นฐานที่สำคัญที่สุด หากความเชื่อใจสูญเสียไป อาจทำให้ความรักต้องพังทลายแม้จะมีความรู้สึกรักมากแค่ไหนก็ตาม ในช่วงเวลาที่ต้องเจอกับคนรักเก่าและสถานการณ์ที่ซับซ้อน นอกจากการเผชิญหน้ากับความจริงและความรู้สึกเจ็บช้ำแล้ว การมีพื้นที่ให้ตัวเองได้พูดคุยกับเพื่อนหรือคนใกล้ชิด รวมทั้งหาเวลาทำกิจกรรมที่รัก หรือหันไปศึกษาดวงชะตาเพื่อหาคำแนะนำ ก็ช่วยให้ใจสงบและมีพลังที่จะก้าวต่อไปได้ สุดท้าย การตั้งกฎเกณฑ์ส่วนตัว เช่น "ไม่ชอบคนโกหก" และรู้จักปกป้องตัวเองจากความสัมพันธ์ที่ไม่ดี เป็นสิ่งช่วยให้เรามีเกราะป้องกันใจและไม่แกว่งไปกับความสัมพันธ์ที่ทำร้ายจิตใจ เรียนรู้ที่จะรักและดูแลตัวเองให้ดีขึ้น จะทำให้พร้อมสำหรับวันที่จะได้พบเจอกับคนที่รักจริงและสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่มั่นคงและสุขใจในอนาคต

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