Why do only girls shave armpits and never men?

People argue that it makes women look prepubescent but it doesn't. Pubic hair grows before armpit hair does. If anything it makes us look pubescent. Like we’re still in puberty developing. Men never do it. Why not? I know body hair is considered masculine but armpit and leg hair? Both genders grow it. Why is armpit hair considered masculine? We groom themselves more than men. If men groomed by shaving their armpits what would happen? Why do men never shave anywhere other than face?

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2024/2/20 Edited to

... Read moreThe discussion surrounding armpit shaving often touches on cultural perceptions of masculinity and femininity. Historically, body hair has been viewed as a trait of masculinity, leading to the societal norm that women should remove their armpit hair. This idea is rooted in concepts of hygiene and beauty, with women feeling pressured to conform to cosmetic standards that favor hairless bodies. Conversely, men often embrace their body hair, perceiving it as a symbol of virility. Interestingly, personal grooming habits are evolving, with a growing number of men choosing to shave or trim their body hair, reflecting changing societal attitudes towards masculinity. Influencers and celebrities are increasingly challenging traditional gender norms, advocating for a more inclusive understanding of body grooming. The question remains: as perceptions evolve, will more men start to embrace shaving their armpits? Ultimately, the dialogue on hair removal brings forth important considerations about body image, gender identity, and individual choice, inviting everyone to question why certain grooming practices have been assigned to specific genders.

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i think men that grow ALOT of hair their usually do cause it tends to stink but some men don't grow as much and maybe don't shave which i understand. my hair never gets beyond the length of a prepubescent boy and i have 10 hairs max so i shave like once a year when summer starts cause it doesn't bother me

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