For years I would think that my style was too simple or too plain and the older I got the more I found ways to make my style fit me and what makes me comfortable and not “what looks good” to others but what make me feel my best.. I grew to absolutely love layers and colorblocking.. I'm a lowkey fashion girlie.. meaning I can look like a bum 85% of the time but that 15% of the time l'm super fly.. my style is a mixture of simple, monochromatic, corky and clean! I love it!!!
... Read moreIt's so liberating when you realize fashion truly has no rules, right? My journey to embracing my 'lowkey fashion girlie' style wasn't just about comfort, but about finding pieces that genuinely made me feel good, not just look good to others. If you're on a similar path to discovering your authentic style, here are a few things that really helped me along the way.
First, start with comfort. Seriously, if you're not comfortable, you won't feel confident. For me, that meant exploring different fabrics and silhouettes until I found what truly worked for my body and my daily life. Don't be afraid to experiment with looser fits or different cuts than what's "trendy." It’s about creating a foundation where you can move freely and feel at ease.
Then, dive into layering! It's a game-changer. Layers aren't just for warmth; they add depth and interest to an otherwise simple outfit. Think about throwing a denim jacket over a monochromatic tee and jeans, or adding a long cardigan to a dress. It instantly elevates the look and allows you to play with textures and proportions. And for my plus-size babes, layering can be incredibly flattering and empowering – it's all about playing with those lines and creating visual interest. It’s a trick that makes even the most basic pieces feel intentional and stylish.
Colorblocking might sound intimidating, but it's simpler than you think. Start with two complementary colors in your outfit, like a bold top with neutral bottoms, or even just through your accessories. It's a fantastic way to add a pop of personality without going overboard. I particularly love how a vibrant scarf or a statement bag can completely transform an understated look, making it feel fresh and exciting.
Speaking of accessories, they are your secret weapon! Even on my most "bum-like" days, a carefully chosen accessory can make me feel put-together. A cool pair of sunglasses, a unique piece of jewelry, or yes, even a stylish bucket hat – maybe something like The Bucket Marc Jacob one I adore – can instantly add that 'super fly' touch without overhauling your entire outfit. It's those little details, like a Black Vomer Matter BUCKET (if that’s your vibe!) or a chic watch, that truly make an outfit yours and bridge the gap between casual and curated.
For anyone who relates to being a "lowkey fashion girlie" – meaning you mostly prioritize comfort but want to shine that 15% of the time – versatility is key. Invest in pieces that can be easily dressed up or down. A great pair of dark wash jeans, a crisp white button-down, or a versatile black dress can be transformed with just a change of shoes and accessories. It's about smart styling, not a huge wardrobe.
Remember that quote from Diane von Furstenberg? 'Style is something each of us already has, all we need to do is find it.' It's so true! Don't let external pressures dictate your wardrobe. Whether you love a simple, monochromatic vibe, or prefer to mix it up with quirky and clean elements, the goal is to dress in a way that makes you feel amazing. Your style is an extension of you, so let it be real, let it be comfortable, and let it be uniquely yours. Experiment, have fun, and embrace every part of your fashion journey!