grwm: navigating grief on mother’s day
Mother’s Day can be a profoundly emotional day for anyone who has lost a parent. Personally, I’ve found that allowing myself to fully experience the range of emotions—from sadness to gratitude—helps me navigate the day more peacefully. One of the most healing steps I take is visiting the cemetery, not necessarily as a routine but as a way to feel closer to my mom and process my grief more tangibly. Sometimes, even a brief visit or just talking to loved ones about shared memories can provide comfort. I’ve noticed that grief isn’t linear, and certain triggers on Mother’s Day, such as seeing families together or hearing stories from siblings, can bring unexpected waves of emotion. It’s important to acknowledge these feelings without judgment. When I feel overwhelmed, I give myself permission to pause and breathe deeply, reminding myself it’s okay to grieve in my own way. Connecting with others who understand what you’re going through can be invaluable. Whether through online communities using tags like #parentloss and #grief or in-person support, having a listener who empathizes can make all the difference. I try to create a 'safe space' around this day, avoiding insensitive comments and focusing on what feels supportive. On a positive note, I’ve also learned to celebrate the moments we shared and honor my mom’s memory by doing small acts of kindness or self-care. Sometimes, this includes dressing up thoughtfully, which forms the basis of the GRWM approach—embracing self-expression and strength even in grief. If you’re facing Mother’s Day without your parent, remember it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions, to seek support, and to find your unique way to heal and remember. This day can hold both pain and love, and honoring that truth is a step toward grace and healing.


































































