It all just feels like a lot sometimes, doesn’t it? This desire to go “all in”, burn the
It all just feels like a lot sometimes, doesn’t it? This desire to go “all in”, burn the boats & MAKE this dream of yours happen - for real this time. Not halfway - ALL the way. And in the next minute, you’ll see someone who is seemingly killing it, making insane money, traveling … living this life of freedom that you’re trying to build and you suddenly feel the wind leave your sails In the past, this kind of thing would have inspired you … given you hope - “if she can, then I can” you’d say to yourself But these days, you wonder if this is ever going to happen for you - and also, if you really even WANT it anymore If you’ve been a solopreneur for awhile (photographer, creative, online marketer) - and especially if you’re in your 40’s and 50’s … you might be feeling this a lot more and wondering what it means Am I done? Does this matter anymore? Do I have time to make this happen? Because this stuff is HARD. It’s a 24/7 grind I don’t care how many girl bosses tell you not to hustle - sometimes you HAVE to hustle. And then you’re bombarded by a new shiny thing every 5 seconds .. trapped in a never ending cycle of “try this” 🫠 So listen - if you relate to any of what I just said and you’ve made it this far into this caption, I mainly just want you to know that I feel like this too sometimes. That’s just part of being a human female with lots of emotions and hormones (or lack of them lol) & it’s just information at the end of the day When I fall into this, I remind myself that my timing is perfect - for me. I log OFF social and regulate (depends on my mood but walking always resets me quickly) And most importantly, instead of allowing my unconscious mind to convince me that I should just give up (because that’s safer) .. I sit with it. I sit IN the feeling and get curious about what’s coming up Because deep down, there’s just a scared little girl who wants to be reassured that she’s safe and that her dreams are valid So get curious & leave the judgment at the door - nobody is cracking the whip on you except YOU Your timing is perfect. If you need to retreat for a bit and recharge - do it. But I hope you come back 💜
As someone who has walked the path of solopreneurship, I completely resonate with the feeling that it all can be too much sometimes. The desire to fully commit—burn the boats and chase your dream with relentless passion—can quickly get overshadowed by doubt, comparisons, and exhaustion. I’ve found that acknowledging these feelings instead of suppressing them is crucial for long-term success and sanity. One thing that truly helped me was recognizing that the desire to disappear and the desire to be fully seen can coexist, just as Renee Bowen mentioned. This duality reminded me that it’s okay to retreat and recharge when overwhelmed, and that stepping back doesn't mean quitting—it means preparing for a stronger return. Practical steps like unplugging from social media, going for walks, or journaling what my fears and hopes are helped me reset. This practice allowed me to observe the ‘scared little girl’ inside, seeking reassurance that my dreams are valid and I am safe. Instead of fighting these feelings, sitting with them and getting curious opens the door to deeper self-understanding and motivation. It’s also important to remember that hustle culture often glamorizes constant grind but ignoring your need to rest leads to burnout. Your timing is perfect for you, no matter what others' timelines look like. Patience and self-compassion can be the most powerful tools in turning your dream into reality. Finally, keep in mind that nobody else is cracking the whip on you except yourself. Be mindful of the expectations you place on yourself and allow space to breathe and reevaluate. When you return stronger and centered, your creativity and drive will follow naturally. This journey is tough, but embracing all the emotions and nuances can make it fulfilling and sustainable.
